TWIN FLAMES: Going through the Waiting Time

Going through the Waiting Time

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The waiting time is the period of time when the Chaser is fully enlightened and has understood the Sacred nature of a twinflame relationship and the Runner is still trying to run…

This phase is confusing and irritating for the Runner…
and emotionally painful for the Chaser…

If you’ve been in the Chaser’s place and are going through this phase, here is some advice that might help 

Meditate
The First thing that I would recommend, is some form of meditation. This will help ease the pain that you’re probably in and will calm your mind.
The Violet Flame is a good way to help yourself relax and balance your Karma at the same time.
Read more about it ‘HERE’

Once you’ve started doing that, here are some other things to do…

Keep Yourself Busy
Now, I’m not saying go out with friends and have a blast… Because I know you probably can’t do that…
[In case you can, feel free to do it]
But just keep yourself busy with something…
Watch a movie… read a book… listen to music… anything
The idea is to avoid sitting idle… 
the more ‘free’ you are, the longer the time period seems to stretch… and the more you focus on your Twinflame (which doesnt help)…
So just DO something whenever you can…

Take up a hobby to express the passion within
The intensity of passion felt at this time can be too much to keep within yourself…
Taking up a hobby that you like will help express this in a good way.

If you are a woman, you’d probably like to do something creative…
consider the following options if you like…
– Painting, taking up a craft project, or even scrap-booking
– Cooking, Baking, or Sugar-crafting
– Gardening
– Making music, singing or maybe learning some dance form…

If you’re a man, you’d probably like something which involves more action…
like
– Some sport
– or playing a musical instrument…

Just search up a list of hobbies and pick something you like.

Educate the runner ( or at least try )
You can try telling your twinflame what’s actually going on. They might be too busy running to even listen or try to understand what you are trying to tell them… but you can still try. 
What is happening will be happening anyway but if they can understand everything and stop running, the process speeds up a lot which basically means that you’ll reunite faster…
If you’re doing this, being patient is very important… 
Explaining it all by yourself can be harder to do sometimes… You could give them a book or website links or maybe ask them to watch a movie (I’ve listed some ‘HERE’) to help understand the concept.

Nurture and Love
Get something or someone to nurture and love.
The twinflame relationship awakens the divine masculine/feminine that you basically are…
You’ll want something or someone to just shower love at (more so if you are a woman). 
Get a pet, spend time with children or even something like gardening can work.
Just express the love that you carry within.

Pamper yourself
Do something that makes you feel good. Take some time out for yourself even if you’re busy just to pamper yourself.
Get a manicure done… take a nice warm bath… or just watch your favorite movie or listen to music that you like. Do whatever works for you.
Everything that makes you feel good keeps you from feeling bad.

And,
If you feel like you’re getting to upset, just remind yourself once again that its going to be all right, and that you and your twinflame are ultimately ONE… and nothing can ever change that. Everything else is just a phase which will pass…