Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Be Interested in Relationship

Hey! Would you like to know how to really get the most out of your relationships with others so you can truly invite more abundance and opportunity into all areas of your life?

If your answer is YES, I have a GREAT tip for you today!

First though, it’s important you understand that when your relationships with others (and yourself) are rich, you're instantly allowing the universe to find ways to enrich your life in other ways as well.

Our interactions with people are key to discovering the abundance that's waiting for us!

That’s why today I’d like to share with you my most important relationship tip, that although may seem simple, is super powerful!

Ready to find out what it is?

My #1 Tip for a flourishing relationship is to: Be interested!

Now, read that carefully, I did not say "be interesting.” Although you may very well be, that's not the point of this tip.

Being interested in what others are saying or how they're interacting with you, is incredibly important to what kind of relationship you have with them.

You probably know what I’m talking about too… you strike up a conversation with a friend or co-worker… and you can immediately sense that they're somewhere else.

They're not at all interested in what you're saying.

Oh, and make no mistake, you can always tell. Think about a time that happened to you… how did it make you feel?

It probably made you feel insignificant, or unimportant, right?

And it's likely that the person didn't know they were doing it, in fact, most of us are guilty of it at one time or another.

And that's exactly why it's so important. When you show interest, not only in what a person is saying, but also to the person themselves, you create a space for true connection, you become present in the conversation and may have insight you didn't know you had.

Not only that, you may just get a whole lot more out of a casual encounter than you might have initially thought!

When I tell people this tip for the first time many of them say… but how do I do it?

Here's HOW to make sure you're showing enough interest in all of your conversations… and it's super simple!

1) Be sure to make direct eye-contact, no smartphone and no glancing around the room to see what else might be happening.


2) Clear your mind and hang on each of their words.

This allows you to drown out other noises and your mind will automatically start tracking more closely at what they're saying.

Practice this every time you have a new conversation. I think you'll be surprised how much more vibrant and fulfilling your interactions will become.

I hope you enjoyed today's tip!

To Your Abundant Life,


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