Monday, July 30, 2012

Creative Visualization

Every day in every way I’m getting better and better
Everything I need is coming to me easily and effortlessly.
My life is blossoming in total perfection.
I have everything I need to enjoy my here and now.
I am the master of my life.
Everything I need is already within me.
Perfect wisdom is in my heart.
I am whole and complete in myself.
I love and appreciate myself just as I am.
I accept all my feelings as part of me.
I love to love and be loved.
The more I love myself, the more love I have to give others.
I now give and receive love freely.
I am now attracting loving, satisfying relationships
 into my life.
My relationship with MANMEET is growing
Happier and more fulfilling every day.
I now have a satisfying, well paying job as well as
I’m writing and directing many films
and also acting in films and ads.
I love doing my work, and I am richly rewarded,
Creatively and financially.
I am open channel of creative energy.
I am dynamically self-expressive.
I enjoy relaxing and having fun.
I communicate clearly and effectively.
I now have enough time, energy, wisdom, and money to
Accomplish all my desires.
I am always in the right place at the right time,
successfully engaged in the right activity.
It’s okay for me to have everything I want!
This is an abundant universe and there’s plenty for all of us.
Abundance is my natural state of being.
Everyday I am growing more financially prosperous.
The more I have, the more I have to give.
The more I give, the more I receive, and the happier I feel.
It’s okay for me to have fun and enjoy myself, and I do!
I am relaxed and centered.
I have plenty of time for everything.

I am now enjoying everything I do.
I feel happy just being alive.
I am healthy and beautiful!
I am open to receiving all the blessings
Of this abundant universe!
is coming to me, easily and effortlessly.
I have a wonderful job with wonderful pay.
I do a wonderful job with wonderful pay.
I do a wonderful service in a wonderful way.
The light within me is creating miracles in my life here and now.
All things are now working together for good in my life.
I am now attuned to my higher purpose in life.
I now recognize, accept, and follow the divine plan of my life as it is revealed to me step by step.
I give thanks now for my life of health, happiness, and self expression.


Monday, July 16, 2012


 God gifted you with what you have for a reason. A reason only known to you in the deepest place of your heart and soul. Only you know the truth! Only you have the power to make that truth a reality. Only you can stand from the mountain top and share YOUR voice with the world. Only you have the power to move mountains with a simple act of faith. It is in your destiny, it is who you are, it is what you were born to do. Do not run away from your conscience. Do not run away from what you know to be true for your purpose! Stand tall and proud even in the face of great struggle, even in the face of frustration and doubt! This is your moment and your time to make the difference that makes the meaning in your life and others. Be proud of who you are, the mistakes and the successes. Be strong with who you know yourself to be. And if you subscribe to these principles, If you pay attention to your unshakeable inner voice, If you accept the god given talents that you have....miracles will happen my friend. The skies will open up, the sunlight will bear it's sweet warmth on your destiny. And your time will be revealed. Your destiny will be uncovered once and for all with a light so bright that no possible situation, circumstance, person, or event will be able to keep you Down. You will rise to the mountain tops, roar with the lions and fly with the eagles. You my friend are one of the great creators on this planet. DONT EVER STOP. Don't ever give up on your dreams, ambitions, and worldly endeavors. Speak for what you believe in, stand for what you stand for, love for what you love, and be EXACTLY who you were mean't to be. You are my hero. You have what all of us have but none of us have... A gift that is unique to you. Use it wisely. Use it with discernment. Choose with honor and with grace! I stand here with you in complete admiration of your gifts because I see the impact that you're already having on the world, just by being you. I'm proud of you my friend. Real proud. ....


Sunday, July 15, 2012

The concept of soulmate is entirely different.  Before marrying how many seekers are asking God to show his/her life companion?  Very few.  So, we are depending on our  self will or freewill.  Generally people are marrying a person chosen by either parents or relatives or recommended by friends or by involving in love affairs.
But in case of spiritual life companion or Soulmate .. spiritually speaking .. will be chosen by God alone, will intimate during deeper meditations by way of God guided intuitive instruction. In such cases it is divine will.  Those who receive such divine instructions have to follow the said intuition otherwise the receiver may face some unwanted consequences for not implementing the said divine will.
You might have been observed  a special prayer ..  How to Pray to find your Soulmate .. in white light kriya yoga.  If the seeker is going on to pray to God basing on  his/her devotion during the meditation, the said seeker will receive divine instructions  and can visualize  soulmate also. 
I know it practically,  many pyramid meditators selected their life companions and spotted them during their deeper meditations.  The said persons may not be belonged to the same religion, same status, same religion, same caste etc.  How God will select nobody knows.
In such selection, once the seeker spotted his/her soulmate, if they don't have pre set of conditions within the mind, they can experience the abnormal joy within.
Once the seeker spotted his/her soulmate, or received any divine instruction during deeper meditations, it is better to inform to his/her parents in advance, so that they will not have any problem in married life or to get married also. The hidden essence is the seeker's spiritual magnetism attracts his/her spiritual life companion.
Yogananda discussed about this concept but YSS/SRF monks misinterpreted it, confusing the seekers without understanding the difference between divine will and freewill.
The soulmates chosen by God will never divide, they are taking birth on this earth to perfect their human love into divine love, to continue the same cordial relations life after life.
Some regresees revealed a lot in  "Destiny of Souls"  on soulmates.  One couple is maintaining same cordial marital relations for the past 7000 years,  I think.
In Destiny of  Souls ..
Between the first and second council meetings is a period of renewal for the soul. As ethereal beings, our growth actually began in the mental realm of the spirit world with other souls before any of us incarnated. So while our internal being is uniquely individual, a vital part of spiritual life between incarnations is devoted to empathetic relationships with other souls. Thus, our development as souls becomes a collective one. Part of the expression of this collectivity is the association we have with these souls in a material reality, such as Earth.

During reincarnation, the closeness souls feel for each other in a mental setting is severely tested by karmic challenges in our host bodiesThis interruption of a blissful mental existence is one means by which spiritual masters expand our consciousness.

I have listened to many intriguing past life love stories of soulmates who come across time and space to meet each other in life once again. Here are a few examples:
Past life age regression produces interesting information about coupling, but placing these clients between their lives provides them with far more perspective on these relationships.

There are many tests wrapped in the package of love. Mixed into those lives where we have had a long and happy life with a soulmate are  those lives where we have destroyed the relationship or been devastated by the actions of our soulmate toward us. In the difficult lives with soulmates something stood in the way of an acceptance of love. Being with soulmates can bring joy and  pain, but we learn from both. Always, there are karmic reasons behind the serious events involving relationships in our lives  ...

...  A primary, or principal soulmate is frequently in our life as a closely bonded partner.This partnership may be our spouse, brother or sister, a best friend, or occasionally a parent. No other soul is more important to us than a primary soulmate and when my subjects describe lives with these souls as their mates most will say their existence is enriched beyond measure.

One of the greatest motivations for souls to incarnate is the opportunity for expression in physical form. This is certainly an attraction for primary soulmates.
There is always a mental connection of one sort or another with a soulmate, regardless of the role they play. We connect with people on many levels for a multitude of karmic lessons in every life. When  friendship catches fire it turns to love, but without abiding friendship deep love cannot thrive. ...

On the other hand, there may be reasons why we might not meet our primary soulmate until later in life. Soulmates will from time to time separate for a life or two and not appear at all.

 "My soulmate and I were becoming too dependent upon each other, we needed to grow a while on our own" is a statement I often hear when soulmates are apart.

Every era on Earth is different as to the sort of attachment and experience we will have with a soulmate. However, each life with them builds upon former lives. We learn valuable lessons from broken relationships. The important thing is to move on in life.

Some clients may tell me before their session  that true love seems to elude them. After the session they usually understand the reasons behind this situation. If the right love for you does not come along, liberate yourself with the understanding that you may be here to learn other lessons.We mistakenly assume people who choose to live alone are lonely when actually they have rich lives that are calm, reflective and productive.

Connecting with someone for whom you have no feelings just for the sake of not being alone is more lonely than being by yourself. As the song says, "Falling in love with love is falling for make-believe." This kind of love is a fantasy because it's driven by an addiction to have love at any price. If your soulmate is supposed to appear they will come into your life, often when you least expect it.   ..

An example ..  
Maureen and Dale learned that they were born only a few months apart fifty years ago in an area around San Francisco. They talked about their unsuccessful marriages and a mutual feeling of unexplained sadness about seeking something neither had ever found that would open their hearts. Their conversations mostly centered around life after death  and Dale mentioned reading my work. Soon, the two decided to meet each other in California and see me for a combined regression session at the same time.

I agreed to an appointment date that turned out to be the day after they first met. They arrived at my office starry-eyed and I remarked that they were already in a trance state and didn't need me.

The moment they saw each other there was instant recognition. Maureen said, "The way we smiled at each other—the expression in our eyes— the sound of our laughter together—the connecting vibrations as we shook hands—created a euphoria that was so strong we were oblivious to everything going on around us."   ...

The advantages of this hypnosis technique are many, including learning if any disrupting body imprints from the last life have been carried forward into the client's current physical body.     ...

These soulmates both knew going into their current life that conditions would not be right for their meeting until many years had passed. Dale especially needed to feel the frustration of years of longing for the right woman to come along. He is not a careless, irresponsible man today. Samantha/Maurcen also required the maturity she did not yet possess in her relationship with Rick in the 1920s.    ....

Soulmates for the past 7000 years.

We can see that Ruth's primary soulmate in this life is her husbandIn Ruth's last life, this soul was her best friend, and in the life before, her wife when she was a male in the eighteenth century. Ruth's primary soulmate has a halo color tinted with  protective yellow while Ruth's own halo is a mixture of white and blue tints, indicating clarity and love of learning.

 These primary soulmates have mated on a fairly regular basis for some   7,000 years   since their first life together. Besides the companion souls in Ruth's soul group, I have also shown two affiliated souls from a nearby group. These souls are my subject's current father and motherThe roles they played in the nineteenth century were her grandmother and grandfather respectively.

In the eighteenth century, these same two souls were Ruth's aunt and uncle. Ruth's chart represents one typical client. Every soul group has its own subtle variations of human family preferences.1 had a client the same  week I saw Ruth who is extremely close to her mother. The mother's soul was a member of that client's soul group and was her sister in the life before.

Grandparents often have a great influence in our early lives as nonjudgmental confidants. I often find that a favorite grandparent in this life was a sibling or best friend in a former life. The social dynamics of intimate human contact are so powerful that in most of my cases the roles souls play in our lives and we in theirs directly bear on a group's karmic lessons.

When we are hurt by someone close to us in life, or caused them hurt resulting in alienation and separation, it is because they volunteered to teach us lessons of some sort while learning lessons themselves.

If the soulmates selected by God means as per the divine will they are uniting on this earth.  God is the decision maker but not human beings or any Master.  The Masters those who has divine vision can give clues.  Those who are capable to visualize can spot their soulmate in his/her deeper meditations.

Once you spotted your soulmate, use commonsense and apporpriate communication to share your visions and divine instruction received from God.

If the vision is true and genuine, the said soulmates will definitely meet and recognize each other.  When they will meet?  When they will marry?  are depending on circumstances, opportunities proper guidance, ability to open the heart before each other and appropriate communication between each other and families.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Dissolving Fear

Dissolving Fear   

One of the biggest challenges of physical life is dealing with fear. The brain being a survival machine is prone to be “wary” of life all the time, it’s constantly on the guard, worried about the future, doubting the possibility of a +ive outcome, confused about existence & always wondering if its missing out on something. The 2 basics needs of a brain are 1. security 2. entertainment. In fact it cannot really enjoy entertainment unless it feels secure in some way. The brain can feel secure in a particular circumstance, mostly when it has the perceived “protection” of a stable job, a stable relationship & some stability in health, however, there is also an awareness that things can change anytime, & this uncertainty breeds fear, thus making you feel insecure even in the midst of an externally secure environment. On top of this, a brain is capable of creating random fears & phobias, sometimes totally childish fears which seem to have a grip nevertheless. Living a life as a prisoner to fear is about the most constricted life one can lead, finding relief only in a drugged state or in sleep.
Fear is not as a big deal as you make it out to be. The reason you stay a prisoner to fear is because you never see it for what it is – fear is very ordinary, it’s extremely limited in its power/intensity & cannot influence you if you just develop some understanding of it. Understanding fear is the 1st step, the 2nd step is to allow it’s the dissolution of its intensity till it comes close to “zero intensity”. The 1st step, of understanding fear, is about getting to know it as it is, by removing all your delusions about it. The 2nd step, of dissolving fear, is about bring an embrace/allowing (light nature) to fear (dark nature) so that it balances out into wholeness. Whatever you allow fully always loses its negativity – if you can just understand this pointer, there really isn’t much else to understand.

Understanding fear

Fear is the mind’s way of being protective of its existence, some fears of the mind are reasonable, some are just bogus, in either case the deal is not be a slave to the fear. If the mind has a reasonable fear, just allow it fully & the solutions required can start manifesting. If the mind has a bogus fear, just allow it fully & it will get dissolved in force. So ultimately the bottom-line towards freedom from the force of fear is to allow it fully. However, as soon as the mind fears something, we get worried, this is because of 2 reasons
1. We assume that the right response to a mind’s fear is to be afraid/worried about it. This is a wrong assumption & this assumption is at the root of why fear keeps gaining momentum in your being.
2. We don’t trust the well-being inherent to our life-stream & thus believe the fearful projections of the mind instead of being in the flow of letting life orchestrate the right events/timing, moving from inspiration, knowing that the force of life is on your side if you allow it to work for you.
Don’t take your mind so seriously. The mind is a very limited machine, it runs totally on its programming (natural & external conditioning) & has a very narrow vision. If you’ve lived enough life you will realize that your mind’s conclusions/projections are not always true & even when they are true it’s serves no purpose to worry about them because a solution can come in more quickly if you are open in you being. Your inner stability depends on how free you are from your mind – a person who panics at the slightest -ve thought in the mind is a total prisoner to the mind, with close to zero inner stability. Growing in inner stability is about becoming less & less influenced by the mind movement. When you see that the mind is just a machine, with a certain programming, you don’t take it to be your “master”, you don’t sit cringing about each of its thoughts – just let it be, even the act of trying to suppress the mind is an act of fear.
For me, the biggest moment of freedom was to realize that I don’t have to do my mind’s bidding, neither do I have to serve its tantrums or craving, neither do I have to sit reassuring it all the time. It’s just a neural network, a conglomerations of cells doing a job, not different than the microchips in your computer creating the illusion of intelligence – in truth, it’s just a mechanical intelligence running on its conditioning & past database. To me its seems almost ridiculous now, how I used to buy all the beliefs of the mind, all the random thoughts that it was producing & all its limiting judgments & opinions – to buy into everything your mind says is about the most limiting life you can ever live, it makes you a very “closed” person.
My mind, like any other mind, has opinions, fears, judgments, interests, inclinations, preferences, bias, attachments & desires, the only difference is that I also have a space where I am free of all of this & I thus have a choice in my relationship towards my mind – I am not at the beck & call of my mind, I am not a servant to it neither am I always opposed to it. I enjoy my mind, to me it’s the most entertaining unit possible even in its idiosyncrasies. You can’t enjoy your mind unless you are free of it. If your whole identity is based on what your mind thinks, you are a slave to it & hence you can’t really enjoy it. People who are way too serious about life are the people who take their mind’s opinions & perspectives too seriously – there is no space in them which is free of the mind’s influence. The mind is not a master, it’s just a machine, quit being so servile to it.

Develop an independence from your mind

The most important aspect of growing in awareness is to first come out of the shell of your mind. As I said above, my mind is capable of opinions, discriminations, judgments, bias, preferences & fears – but I am also free of it, at any moment I have the choice to either go with my mind or retain my “openness” & this is a huge freedom. When one is unconsciously lost to the grip of the mind, there is no choice but to go with the mind all the time. There was point when I actually made a commitment to no longer be a slave to the mind & develop an independent space within me that was free of the mind’s identities & beliefs. My mind had a very strong momentum of negativity going on & staying true to this commitment was highly challenging especially when it went into a rampage of fears with all the perfect arguments to defend its fears. The deal was that I understood the mechanics of a mind & hence I stopped buying into its pull. I just let it be, I call this state “relaxed awareness”, but really it’s just a commitment to not give in to the mind’s pull & stay in an open space of allowing it.
It’s not easy to stay allowing of the mind, without buying into its pull, when it has a strong momentum going for it. In fact, it’s really tough initially. However, once you have an understanding that the mind is just a machine & that its momentum comes from your attention to it, you realize that its momentum cannot last if you stop giving it attention. By “attention” I just mean belief/identification/trust/interest, a lot of readers get hung up on the literal meaning of the words instead of just seeing the pointer involved in it. When I say don’t give attention to the mind I don’t mean try to run away from your mind, or try to ignore it, in fear, I am just referring to the simple state of allowing the mind to be, without buying into it. Look at your mind the way you would look at a computer that’s running on programming, can you see how most of its thoughts are just plain repetitive, like a closed loop? It’s just running on past momentum, you don’t have to give credence to these thoughts – the moment you let go of your interest/belief in these thoughts, they automatically ebb away in force & dissolve.
Don’t look for security as soon as the mind pops an insecure thought – understand that it’s just a thought, a perspective of the mind, nothing more. You have the independence to not buy the perspectives of your mind & let yourself just stay in a space of “openness” (what’s called resting in the unknown) and let life bring you the required insights, understandings and solutions. For example, when the mind goes “I hate being alone”, don’t mull this thought, instead just let the thought be – don’t go around trying to appease your mind all the time, this way you will just become a slave to it. I am not saying that you should oppose your mind all the time, I am just saying that you need to develop a space of freedom within you where you have the independence to not be influenced by what your mind thinks.
Most of us just keep repeating what our mind says without even taking the time to question it, or introspect it, or to look more deeply at it – if the mind says “I hate this thought, I can’t bear it”, we just accept its opinion instead of understanding that its just the mind’s opinion & you have the freedom to not buy into it. You might just have had a break up & your mind is going crazy with the repetitive thought of “I can’t live without him/her” – if you have an inner stability you will have the space to allow the mind to have it moment of grief without getting into a twirl to reassure/fix it, knowing that its momentum will die away with time; On the other hand, if you lack inner stability you will end up sending a hundred texts to your ex, making it all worse. The therapists would go out of business if people just understood that they don’t have to fix their minds they just need to stop buying into everything it says & the mind will sort out on its own, time allows for the momentum of the mind to come down regarding any thought it might hold. Developing this inner stability is the basic foundation needed to have a balanced physical life.

Allowing dissolution of the force of fear

All fears are ultimately thought forces in the mind. To dissolve a fear you need to merge it with its opposite, which is fearlessness (openness). True fearlessness is about being allowing. So when a fear arises, if you become allowing of it, it starts dissolving in force. It’s a very simple logic & it works for even the most intense fears you might have – there is no other secret. You can discuss your fears with a multitude of therapists, take a bunch of medications, join a host of chat groups to discuss them & basically keep trying to get rid of the fear & nothing really changes except that the fear gains more momentum out of all your fights against it. But, the moment you allow the fear fully & totally, without looking for an escape, it starts losing its force automatically & the energy of the fear is transmuted into energy of creation (creating a reality with a solution that ends the external manifestation of that fear).
The word “allowing” is crucial & it’s important to understand the implication of it. Staying in a place of allowing is really not a technique, however you can start off initially by using it as a technique or a practice – what I call the practice of relaxed awareness, or staying in the space of being. But at some point you want to let go of the mindset of using it as a practice & make it your way of living. “Allowing” is not a practice, it’s a way of life – it’s not something you do to get rid of fear, it’s about connecting with your true body of spaciousness. The state of allowing is a pointer towards your natural state of openness, it’s not meant to just be a temporary technique to help you get rid of some specific fear that you are dealing with right now. A real allowing can only happen when you stop trying to protect yourself against fear, stop trying to get rid of fear, rather just become totally open to it.
The problem is that the moment I use words like “relaxed awareness”, space of being, or state of allowing, it always comes across as if I am giving a technique when I am actually just pointing to a state of being – a state of living life. If you say – “I’ve been allowing for 2 or 3 months & the fears are still there, so what else should I do” – it just means you did not get the point at all, and you’ve just been doing a “practice” to keep protecting yourself against fear, you’ve not really allowed the fear in to the point where you no longer fear it. The deal is that you can only become truly allowing of a fear when you stop fearing it & the question the mind keeps asking is “how do I stop fearing it”, this is the loop of confusion. The answer is – “just allow the fear in without holding distance”, & keep doing it until you no longer have to ask “how do I stop fearing it”. The only way a fear can dissolve in force is when it meets the space of true allowing, a true openness, a true embrace – only you can know if you are really allowing it, don’t just do it for the sake of practice, do it to know your own power of allowing – this is how you will find out how spacious/vast your being really is.