Monday, December 31, 2012

Portrait of a person; free from Erroneous Zones

The person who is devoid of all erroneous zones behavior may seem to be fictional character, but being free from self-destructive behavior is not a mythological concept; rather it's a real possibility. Being fully functional is within your grasp and complete present moment mental health can be a choice. This chapter is devoted to a description of how people who are free from all erroneous zones thinking and behavior function. You will see the development of an individual who is unlike the majority of people, and distinguishable by an uncanny ability to be creatively alive at every moment.

People free from erroneous zones are different from run-of-the -mill individuals. While they look very much like everyone else, they possess distinct qualities, non of which are racial, socioeconomic, or sexual. They do not fit any of the roles, job descriptions, geographic patterns, educational levels or financial statistics. There is a different quality about them, but the difference is not discernible in the traditional external factors by which we generally classify people. They may be rich or poor, male or female, black or white, living anywhere, and doing just about anything. They are a varied group and yet they share a single trait, freedom from erroneous zones. How can you tell when you run into someone like this? Watch them! Listen to them! This is what you'll discover.

First and most obviously, you see people who like virtually everything about life - people who are comfortable doing just about anything, and who waste no time in complaining, or wishing that things were otherwise. They are enthusiastic about life, and they want all that they can get out of it. They like picnic, movies, books, sports, concerts, cities, farms, animals, mountains and just about everything.

They like life. When you are around people like this you'll note an absence of grumbling, moaning, or even passive sighing. If it rains, they like it. If it's hot, they dig it, rather than complain about it. If there is a traffic jam, or at party, or all alone, they simply deal with what is there. There is no pretending to enjoy, but w sensible acceptance of what is, and an outlandish ability to delight in that reality. Ask them what they don't like and they are hard-pressed to come up with an honest answer. They don't have sense enough to come in out of the rain, because they see rain as beautiful, thrilling and something to experience. They like it. Slush doesn't send them into a fury; they observe it, splash around in it, and accept it as part of what it means to be alive. Do they like cats? Yes. Bears? Yes. Worms? Yes. While such annoyances as disease, droughts, mosquitoes, floods and the like are not warmly embraced by such people, they never spend any of their present moments complaining about them, or wishing that they weren't so. If situations need to be eradicated, they will work at eradicating them - and enjoy the work. Try as you might, you'll have a tough time coming up with something they'll dislike doing. Truly they are likers of life, and they wallow in all of it, getting out it all that is possible for them.

Healthy fulfilled people are free from guilt and all the attendant anxiety that goes with using any present moments in being immobilized over past events. Certainly they can admit to making mistakes, and they can vow to avoid repeating certain behavior that is counterproductive in any way, but they do not waste their time wishing that they hadn't done something, or being upset because they dislike something that they did at an earlier moment in life. Complete freedom fro guilt is one hallmark of healthy individuals. No lamenting the past and no efforts to make others choose guilt by asking such inane questions as, "Why didn't you do it differently?" or " Aren't you ashamed of yourself?" They seem to recognize that life lived through is just that, and no amount of feeling bad will alter the past. They are free from guilt themselves without any effort; because it is natural, they never help others to choose guilt. They see that feeling bad in the present moment only reinforces a poor self-image, and that learning from the past is far superior to remonstrating about the past. You'll never see them manipulating others others by telling them how bad they've been, nor will you be able to manipulate them with the same tactics. They won't get angry at you, they will go away, or change the subject. The strategies that work so beautifully on most people fail with these healthy individuals. Rather than make themselves and others miserable with guilt, they unceremoniously pass when it comes along. 

Similarly, people free of erroneous zones are nonworriers. Circumstances that drive many people to frenzy barely affect these individuals. They are neither planners nor putters-away for the future. They refuse to worry and they keep themselves free from the anxiety that accompanies worry. They don't know how to worry. It is not a part of their makeup. They are not necessarily calm at all moments, but they are unwilling to spend present moments agonizing about things in the future over which they have no control. They are very present-moment oriented, and they have an internal signal that seems to remind them that all worrying must take place in the present moment, and that is a foolish way to go about living one's current life.

These people live now, rather than in the past or the future. They are not threatened by the unknown, and they seek out experiences that are new and unfamiliar to them. They love ambiguity. They savour the now at all times, aware that this is all they have. They don't plan for a future event and let long periods of inactivity elapse as they await that event. The moments between events are just as livable as those taken up by the events themselves, and they have an uncanny ability to get every pleasure out of their daily lives. They are not postponers, saving for a rainy day, and while our culture disapproves their behavior, they are unthreatened by self-approach. They gather in their happiness now, and when a future now arrives, they gather in that one as well. These individuals are always enjoying simply because they see the folly of waiting to enjoy. It is a natural way of living, very much like that of a child or an animal. They are busy grabbing present-moment fulfillment, while most people spend their lives waiting for.payoffs, and never being able to seize them.

These healthy people are strikingly independent. They are out of the nest, and while they may have a strong love for the devotion to family, they see independence as superior to dependence in all relationships. They treasure their own freedom from expectations. Their relationships are built upon mutual respect for the right of an individual to make decisions for himself. Their love involves no imposition of values on the loved one. They put a high premium on privacy, which may leave others feeling snubbed or rejected. They like to be alone at times, and they will go to great lengths to ensure that their privacy is protected. You will not find these people involved in numerous love relationships. They are selective about their love, but they're also deeply and sensitively loving. It is difficult for dependent or unhealthy people to love them, because they are adamant about their freedom. If someone needs them, they reject such a need as hurtful to the other person as well as to themselves. They want those they love to be independent, to make their own choices, and to live their lives for themselves. While they enjoy others and want to be with them, they want even more for others to make it without crutches or leaning. Thus, the moment you start leaning on these people, you'll find them disappearing, first emotionally, and then physically as well. They refuse to be dependent, or dependend upon, in a mature relationship. With children, they provide a model of a caring person, but they encourage self - reliance almost from the beginning with a great amount of love offered at every turn.

You will find an uncommon absence of approval-seeking in these happy, fulfilled individuals. They are able to function without approval and applause from others. They do not seek out honors as most people do. They are unusually free from the opinion of others, almost uncaring about whether someone else likes what they've said or done. They do not attempt to shock others, or to gain their approval. These are people who are so internally directed that they are literally unconcerned about others' evaluations of their behavior. They are not oblivious to applause and approval; they just don't seem to need it. They can be almost blunt in their honesty since they do not couch their messages in carefully worded phrases designed to please. If you want to know what they think, that is exactly what you'll hear. Conversely, when you say something about them they will not be destroyed or immobilized. They will take the data you provide, filter it through their own values and use it for growth. They do not need to be loved by everyone, nor do they harbor the inordinate wish to be approved by all for everything that they do. They recognize that will always incur some disapproval. They are unusual in that they are able to function as they, rather than some external other, dictates.

As you watch these characters you will note a lack of enculturation. They are not rebels, but they do make their own choices even if those choices conflict with what everybody else does. They can ignore petty rules if they make no sense, and quietly shrug at the little conventions that are such an important part of so many lives. They're not cocktail partiers, nor do they engage in small talk because it's the polite thing to do. They are their own people and while they see society as an important part of their lives, they refuse to be ruled by it or to become a slave to it. They don't rebelliously attack but they do know internally when to ignore and function in a clear-headed and sensible way.

They know how to laugh, and how to create laughter. They find humor in virtually all situations, and they can laugh at the most absurd as well as the most solemn of occasions. They love to help others to laugh, and they are facile at creating humor. These are not serious, ponderous folks who plow through life with a stony grimness. Instead, they are doers, who are often scorned for being frivolous at the wrong time. They do not have good timing for they know that there is really no such thing as the right thing in the right place. They love the incongruous, yet they are inhostile in their humor; never, but never using ridicule to create laughter. They don't laugh at people, they laugh with them. They do laugh at life, and they see the whole thing as fun, even though they are deliberate in their own pursuits. When they step back and look at life, they know that they aren't going anyplace in particular, and they are able to enjoy and create an atmosphere in which others can choose joy for themselves. They are fun to have around. 
These are people who accept themselves without complaint. They know that they are human beings, and that being so involves certain human attributes. They know that they look a certain way, and they accept it. If they're tall, that's okay, but so is being short. Bald is fine, and so is lots of hair. They can live with sweat! They are not phony about their physical humanity. They've accepted themselves, and therefore they are the most natural of people. No hiding behind artificialities, no apologizing for what they are. They don't know how to be offended by anything that is human. They like themselves and accept what they are. Similarly, they accept all of nature for what it is, rather than wishing it were otherwise. They never complain about things that won't change, such as heat waves, rainstorms, or cold water. They accept themselves and the world as it is. No pretenses, no groaning, simply acceptance. Follow them around for years, and you'll never hear self-depreciation or wishing. You'll see doers doing. You'll see them observing the world the way it is, like a child who accepts the natural world and enjoys it for all it's worth. 
They appreciate the natural world. They love being outdoors in nature, and tripping around in all that is unspoiled and original. They especially love things like mountains, sunsets, rivers, flowers, trees, animals and virtually all flora and fauna. They are naturalists as people, unceremonious and unpretentious, and they love the naturalness of the universe. They are not busy seeking out taverns, nightclubs, parties, conventions, smoke filled rooms, and the like, although they are certainly capable of enjoying such activities to the fullest. They are at peace with nature, God's world, if you will, though they are capable of functioning in a man made world. They are also capable of functioning in a man made world. They are also capable of appreciating what has become stale for others. They never tire of a sunset or a trip in the woods. A bird in flight is a magnificent sight over and over again. A caterpillar never grows tiresome, nor does a cat giving birth to kittens. Over and over again they spontaneously appreciate. Some may find this artificial, but these people don't notice what others think. They are too busy in awe of the vastness of possibilities for present moment fulfillment. 
They have insight into the behavior of others, and what may seem complex and indecipherable to others, they see as clear and understandable. The problems that immobilize so many others are often viewed as only minor annoyances by these people. This lack of emotional involvement in problems makes them able to surmount barriers that remain insurmountable to others. They have insight into themselves too, and they recognize immediately what others are attempting to do to them. They can shrug and ignore while others are angered and immobilized. They are never perplexed or stumped and what may seem to be confusing or insoluble to most others is often viewed by them as a simple condition with a ready resolution. They are not focused on problems in their emotional world. For these people a problem is really only an obstacle to be overcome rather than a reflection of what they are or aren't as a person. Their self-worth is located within, and therefore any external concerns can be viewed objectively, rather than as in any way a threat to their value. This is a most difficult trait to understand, since most people are easily threatened by external events, ideas, or people. But healthy, independent people do not know how to be threatened, and this very characteristics may make them threatening to others. 
They never engage in useless fighting. They are not bandwagoners, jumping on various causes as a way of bringing importance to themselves. If fighting will help bring about change, then they will fight but never will they find it necessary to fight uselessly. They are not martyrs. They are doers. They are also helpers. They are almost always engaged in work that will make other people's lives more pleasant or tolerable. They are warriors on the forefront of social change, and yet they don't take their struggles to bed with them every night as a breeding ground for ulcers, heart disease and other physical disorders. They are incapable of stereotyping. They often don't even notice the physical differences in people, including racial, ethnic, size and sexual. They are not surface people, judging others by their looks. While they may appear to be hedonistic and selfish, they spend vast amounts of time in the service of others. Why? Because they like it that way.
These are not sickly people. They don't believe in being immobilized by colds and headaches. They believe in their ability to rid themselves of such maladies, and they never go around telling others how bad they feel, how tired they are, or what diseases are currently infecting their bodies. They treat their bodies well. They like themselves, and consequently they eat well, exercise regularly (as a way of living) and refuse to experience most of the infirmities that render many people helpless for various periods of time. They like to live well, and they do.
Another hallmark of these fully functional individuals is honesty. They are not evasive with their responses, nor do they pretend or lie about anything. They see lying as a distortion of their own reality, and they will not participate in self delusional behavior. While they are private people they will also avoid having to distort to protect others. They know that they are in charge of their own world, and that others are as well. Thus, they will behave in ways that will often be perceived as cruel but in fact they are simply allowing others to make their own decisions. They deal effectively with what is, rather than what they would like to be. 
These people don't blame. They are internal in their personality orientation, and they refuse to ascribe responsibility to others for what they are. Similarily, they will not spend a great deal of time talking about others and focusing on what someone else has done or failed to do. They do not talk about people; they talk with them. They do not blame others, they help others and themselves to assign responsibility where it belongs. They are not gossips or spreaders of evil information. They are so busy being effective in their own lives that they have no time for the petty connivances that occupy many people's lives. Doers do. Critics blame and complain.
These individuals have little concern with order, organization, or systems in their lives. They have self-discipline but no need to have things and people fit into their own perceptions of how everything ought to be. They have no oughts for others. They see everyone as having choices, and those petty things that drive others insane are simply the results of someone else's decision. They do not see the world as having to be any special way. They have no preoccupation with cleanliness or orderliness. They exist in a functional way, and if everything isn't fitting in as they would prefer, they find that all right too. Organization then, for these people, is simply a useful means rather than an end in itself. Because of this lack of organizational neurosis, they are creative. They attack any concern in their own unique way, be it making a bowl of soup, writing a report, or mowing the grass. They apply their own imagination to the act, and the result is a creative approach to everything. They don't consult manuals or ask experts; they simply attack the problem as they see fit. This is creativity, and without exception, they have it.
These are people with exceptionally high energy levels. They seem to require less sleep, and yet they are excited about living. They do, and they are healthy. They can muster tremendous surges of energy for completing a task because they choose to be involved in it as a fulfilling present moment activity. Their energy is not super natural; it is simply the result of loving life and all the activitiees in it. They don't know how to be bored. All life events present opportunities for doing, thinking, feeling and living, and they know how to apply their energy in virtually all life circumstances. Were they to be imprisoned, they would use their minds in creative ways to avoid the paralysis of loss of interest. Boredom is not in their lives because they are channeling the same energy that others have in ways productive for themselves.
They are aggressively curious. They never know enough. They search for more and want to learn each and every present moment of their lives. They are not concerned with having to do it right or having done it wrong. If it doesn't work, or it doesn't accomplish the greatest amount of good, then it is discarded, rather than mulled over in regret. They are truth seekers in the learning sense, always excited about learning more and never believing they are a finished product. If they are around a barber, they want to learn about barbering. They never feel or act superior, showing off their merit badges for others to applaud. They learn from children and stock brokers and animals. They want to know more about what it means to be welder, a cook, a hooker, or a corporate vice-president. They are learners not teachers. They never know enough, and they don't know to act snobbish or supearior, since they 
never feel that way. Every person, every object, every event represents an opportunity for knowing more. And they are aggressive in their interests, not waiting for information to come along, but going after it. They're not afraid to talk to a waitressC, ask a dentist what it feels like to have your hands in someones mouth all day, or inquire of the poet what is meant by this or that line. 
They are not afraid to fail. In fact they often welcome it. They do not equate being successful as a human being. Since their selfworth comes from within, any external event can be viewed objectively as simply effective or ineffective. They know that failing is merely somebody else's editorial opinion and not to be feared since it cannot affect self worth. Thus, they will try anything, participate just because it's fun, and never fear having to explain themselves. Similarly, they never choose anger in any immobilizing way. Using the same logic (and not having to think it through each time since it has become a way of life) they don't say to themselves that other people should behave differently and that events should be otherwise. They accept others as they are, and they work at changing events that they dislike. Thus, anger is impossible because the expectancies are not there. These are people who are capable of eliminating emotions that are in any way self destructive and facilitating those which are self enhancing. 
These happy individuals display an admirable lack of defensiveness. They won't play games and try to impress others. They don't dress fir others' approval, nor do they go through the motions of explaining themselves. They have a simplicity and naturalness, and they won't get seduced into making issues of small or big things. They aren't arguers or hotheaded debaters; they simply state their views, listen to others and recognize the futility of trying to convince someone else to be as they are. They'll simply say,"That's all right; we're just different. We don't have to agree." They let it go at that without any need to win an argument or persuade the opponent of the wrongness of his position. They are unafraid of giving a bad impression but they don't strive to do so. 
Their values are not local. They do not identify with tge family, neighborhood, community, city, state, or country. They see themselves as belonging to the human race, and an unemployed Californian. They are not patriotic to a special boundary; rather they see themselves in importance. They do not demand justice at every turn. When someone else has more privileges, they see that as a benefit to that person, rather than as a reason for being unhappy. When playing an opponent they want him to do well, rather than wishing a poor performance in order to win by default. They want to be victorious and effective on their own, rather than gaining through the shortcomings of others. They do not insist that everyone be equally endowed, but look inward for their happiness. They are not critics, nor do they take pleasure in other people's misfortunes. They are too busy being, to notice what their neighbors are doing. Most significantly, these are individuals who love themselves. They are motivated by a desire to grow, and they always treat themselves well when given the option. They have no room for self pity, self rejection, or self hate. If you ask them, "Do you like yourself?" you'll get a resounding ,"Off course I do!" They are rare birds indeed. Each day is delight. They have it together and they live all of their present moments. They are not problem free, but free from emotional immobility as a result of the problems. The measure of their mental health is not in whether they slip but in what they do when they slip. Do they lie there and whine about having fallen! No, they get up, dust themselves off, and get on with the business of living. People who are free from erroneous zones don't chase after happiness; they live and happiness is their payoff.
This quote from a Reader's Digest piece on happiness is their payoff. 
Nothing on earth renders happiness less approachable than trying to find it. Historian Will Durant described how he looked for happiness in knowledge, and found only disillusionment. He then sought happiness in travel and found weariness; in wealth and found discord and worry. He looked for happiness in his writing and was only fatigued. One day he saw a woman waiting in a tiny car with a sleeping child in her arms. A man descended from a train and came over and gently kissed the woman and then the baby, very softly so not to waken him. The family drove off and left Durant with a stunning realization of the real nature of happiness. He relaxes and discovered that "every normal function of the life holds some delight." 
By using your present moments for maximising fulfillment, you'll be one of these people rather than an observer. It's such a delightful idea - freedom from erroneous zones. You can make that choice right now - if you choose to!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Twinflames: Love at first sight


It sometimes happens
that a man and a woman meet and
instantly recognize the other half
of themselves behind the eyes of each other
...The eyes have been rightly called
"the windows of the soul." Even their
voices are familiar to each other's ears, like a
remembered chord of music...

These are two who
immediately sense the unalterable
fact that they have been--are--and must
always be One...even though they
might have fought against their fate for
centuries and struggled in vain to escape
their linked destiny...Almost from the first
moment they meet and gaze upon each other,
their spirits rush together in joyful recognition,
ignoring all convention and custom,
all social rules of behaviour,
driven by an inner knowing too
overwhelming to be denied...

Inexplicably, often without a word being spoken, they know that only through each other can they hope to find Wholeness--only when they're together can they both be Complete in every way...Somehow, they feel Immortal, and they are...for this level of love can bestow the beginning knowledge of the attainment of several-centuries longevity in the same flesh body on the Earth plane, as well as the accomplishment of changing flesh bodies (the Temples of the soul) in a fully conscious state, without the "coma" called death...

A man and a woman, who are twinflames hardly need to speak the words "I love you", knowing as surely as they do that they must belong to each other whether in this present incarnation (lifetime) or (due to karmic complication) at the end of many more centuries...The words in the marriage cermony "those which God hath joined together, let no man asunder" refer to such as these...Yet this warning is unnecessary, simply symbolic ritual, for no man can break the tie between Twinflames, not even themselves...Nor can any energy in the Universe...The Force that created them is all-powerful and indestructible...The bond may be weakened, their final union and consummation delayed, but they cannot be separated permanently...There can be no end to the kind of happiness they may claim...when they wish to do so...on a timetable dictated by the Free Will choice of the Higher Angels of their own selves...

This kind of instant magnetic attraction is often called "love at first sight" which is no accident of fate, but very real...It's more than curious coincidence that Twinflames, out of the whole huge world, should be drawn together at the appointed time...The crossing of their paths has been predistined on a Higher Level of Awareness...Certain spiritual energies are at work to bring about their meetings, as surely as the migration of birds and the return of comets are governed by a similar Universal Law...Their coming together is controlled by the workings of Karma, which is but the sum total of Causes set into motion in the Past--and these determine infallibly the conditions of the Present...when the time comes for Twinflames to incarnate, they are sent to Earth, clothed in flesh (the bodies being the Temples of the soul) through particular Time-Energy Forces, at the moment in Earth Time when certain planetary configuarations create the proper conditions...These Time-Energy Forces are electromagnetic in nature, yet more complex than this...

During the periods of twinflames being apart, however brief or however extended, both persons are lonely, empty, and incomplete...yet even throughout any such temporary spaces in their togetherness, there's a constant, pulsing astral communication between them--for even then, they are linked by a cord that connects them over the miles...

Sunday, December 23, 2012


Twin Souls, Twin Flames and Soul Mates
Our universe operates under certain eternal principles or laws. One of these principles or laws is the law of polarity. Some examples of polarities are light/dark, positive/negative, yin/yang, male/female, proton/electron, good/evil, Alpha/Omega, God/Goddess and so forth. The female principle is the yin principle and the male principle is the yang principle.

The female or yin principle encompasses certain tendencies, functions, movements, directions and vibrations as does the male principle. For example, the female principle encompasses centrifugal force, expansion, lighter in weight, colder, darker, wetter, softer, more hollow and expansive, etc. The male or yang principle encompasses centripetal force, contraction, heavier in weight, hotter, brighter, drier, harder, more compacted and condensed, etc.

According to a very brilliant, in my opinion, Japanese Philosopher named Michio Kushi, these universal principles operate constantly in the eternal order of the infinite universe. He tells us that “God and Infinity are one in the same. When the name of God is used, it is often misunderstood as a static personality, and when the term Infinity is used, it is difficult for many people to comprehend. The Infinity/God/Source/All That Is is neither a person nor a phenomenon; it is a universal oneness, embracing everything – every being, every phenomenon- and it is the endless universe itself. The universe does not remain in one state but is changing constantly – transforming continuously, transmuting eternally from the beginningless beginning to the endless end. The infinite universe is a process of absolute dynamic change within which countless relative changes are arising everywhere in every dimension at all times. Yin and Yang are manifested continuously from the eternal movement of one universe. The movement of energy or vibration ultimately appears from these two polar tendencies, yin and yang, which are antagonistic and complementary to each other. In turn, yin and yang are the primary manifestations of One Infinity, or the ultimate origin of all phenomena. However, according to Kushi, nothing is solely yin or yang and everything is composed of both tendencies in varying degrees.

This is further demonstrated by the universal yin/yang sign. The yin or dark half retains a seed of the yang or bright half and the yang or light half retains a seed of the yin or dark half.

Each and every soul has a spiritual counterpart or twin that is their exact polar opposite. You were created together when your soul was born from the infinite source literally eons ago. One twin polarized to the yin or female side and one twin polarized to the male or yang side. Each of the twins retained a seed of their counterpart. These spiritual counterparts are linked together throughout eternity. Twin souls have deep unconditional love for one another and their love is eternal, pure and the highest form of love. Their love is “divine” in nature and is representative of the love our creator has for us.

This concept is not a new one and, in fact, is very ancient. Plato discusses twin souls in his Symposium. The Sufis refer to twin souls as “sister souls” in the Sufi text.

Our natural state is to be in oneness with our twin soul and also our higher selves.

The cyclical nature of the universe is that we descend and then we ascend again. It is an eternal process. The Source breaths us out and we begin our descent. The Source breaths us back in and we start to ascend. When the ascension process begins, we again align with our higher selves and our divine counterparts, our twin soul.

According to Kushi, “upon becoming human, we then start to return to Infinity, through an outward-moving spiral of decomposition and spiritualization, melting personal and individual entities and once again achieving union with the Eternal One or Source”. We become one with our Source or God again and from what I understand there is not greater joy for us to experience. We as humans cannot even begin to comprehend this level of joy!

St. Germain explains ascension as a process of moving further up back through the hierarchies and dimensions until we eventually reach the source again. St. Germain explains that the first step is to realign with our twin souls, then our soul groups, etc. As more and more soulmate constellations begin to reunite, we will continue to ascend back up through the hierarchies and dimensions until we all reach the source again, the highest dimension of all and the state of perfection. However, St. Germain tells us that if all of the universal truths and knowledge were made known to our finite human minds at one time rather than gradually, “our finite human minds would blow a fuse”. Therefore, spirit gives us the pieces of truths that we can handle and once we integrate these into our consciousnesses, further truths are revealed to us. This is a never ending process until we once again reach the state of perfection.

Our planet will be experiencing a huge evolutionary leap in consciousness in this New Age. Our planet as a whole will be ascending from 3rd dimension to 5th dimension. The Mayans predicted this end of the old reality as we know it to commence on December 21, 2012. Their calendar ends on that date. Edgar Cayce has prophesied that by the end of this New Age of Aquarius, we will be a completely telepathic civilization. This is a 5th dimensional state of being.

Many light workers are currently in the process of ascending and they in turn will help others to ascend. As we enter this new Age of Aquarius, also known as the “enlightened era”, these ancient truths will be coming back into the light and out of the darkness. Many twin souls are beginning to align with their counterparts as well as their higher selves. This process is currently underway. however, it is just in the beginning stages. We will be returning to our pre-fall state when we were one with our spiritual twins and our higher selves and had full consciousness and awareness of our spiritual identities.

This is the plan that the higher forces have for our planet in this new age. We will be entering a “New Reality”. But this will not happen overnight. This is a process and not an actual event. It is gradual but inevitable.

It is important to point out that it may not be the plan for you to realign with your twin soul in this particular lifetime. This is determined by divine timing and the plan for your individual twin set. Your twin may not even be incarnated on the earth plane in this point in linear time. Or your twin may be a child or even a baby somewhere on the earth plane. Your twin could even already be in the ascended state in a higher dimension, waiting for you to join them. There are no cut and dry situations when it comes to twin souls.However, any spiritual work to align with their higher selves that either twin does will naturally “elevate” the other and this will help to expedite their eventual reunion. Rest assured that you will be reunited with your twin in divine timing. Twin souls are eternally connected to one another by a silvery/blue cord which can NEVER be severed. We are also connected to our higher selves by a similar silver cord which is attached to our crown chakra.

There is another reason that Twin souls are coming together at this particular point in our earth’s evolution. According to Dr. Maurie Pressman and Patricia Joudry in their groundbreaking book, “Twin Souls, Finding Your True Spiritual Partner”, “it is believed by many that humanity is on the brink of a quantum leap in consciousness. Enlightened people are preparing themselves for this in their own ways, realizing it is time for us to awaken to our origins and our potential and take responsibility for ourselves and for the earth. We believe that twin souls have a special contribution to make; their coming together in numbers at this time has a reason at both the individual and planetary level. When twin souls join, they generate a vortex of energy that may be seen as a light in the darkness of society’s unconsciousness. In completing each other, the whole becomes greater than the sum of its parts: the two create three, and the third is a very potent force, a force of light and love at an extremely pure level. This kind of energy, which partakes of the energy of both twins, isdifferent from that of individuals or even groups of people working together. It is the special offering that the twins have to give to each other and expend in service to humanity. The image we see is that of a dark auditorium lit by an increasing number of individual flames. Each flame represents the conscious and harmonious relationship between twin souls. Eventually, as the twins multiply, there will be so many flames, so much light, and so much energy of that particular sort on the planet that this will act as a catalyst and help to bring about the expected breakthrough of consciousness”.

We are on the brink of a very exciting and positive time in the earth’s evolution and our own personal evolution. I for one am really looking forward to what is to come!

Twinflames: A Sacred Sexual Union

Entering a Sacred Sexual Union
Every cell in your body is a hologram of you. You are a hologram of God. (In a hologram, there is no end, and God is absolutely present in every part of creation.) Therefore, every single cell in your body is a sexual, conscious being, not just a few cells located in the area of your genitalia. The purpose of Sacred Sexuality is to consciously create More Love with the full spectrum of your available energy in exchange with the energy of your complementary pattern – your Twin Flame. Approach this union with the deepest reverence and gratitude.
First, and always, invoke the presence of God and surrender your Will to God’s higher Will, intending that your LoveMaking include God’s pure love, direction, and protection. Seal your creation in light to protect it as your bring it forth into manifestation.
Next, make a choice to move from the ego into your heart, for you cannot connect in ego. Discern if, at the level of your being, you are female or male energy and fully accept and embody either the energy of the Divine Mother or the Divine Father light.

Connect with your beloved on whatever level you can make contact. It can be an intuitive sense or even just an affirmation of your surety that your Twin Flame is with you.
Join your hearts (the critical step! Do not ever leave it out or you may end up creating “anti-love” energy.)
Unite your chakras, including those above and below your body, creating a double helix of energy movement (like the DNA strands). Feel this with your intention.
If you are together physically, begin awakening the very cells of your beloved’s body by pouring love from your heart through your touch. If you are with them only in thought, imagine this activity. Excite the electrons within each cell with the heat of this love, gently, tenderly caressing your beloved. Use WILL (God’s Will through you) to direct the atomic lovers of the electrons in the cells to bring the full and glorious awakening, for each cell is also in Twin Flame relationship.
Pour forth this love so completely, with no thought of yourself, opening each of your own cells to your beloved. This love must be real and generated from the heart. It cannot be distorted by selfishness or any lower energy.
Notice how much space is between the cells as the light of your atoms literally exchanges place with that of your lover, uniting you as one.

Expand this heat, exciting the electrons, and maintain it for as long as possible while pouring your love ceaselessly to your beloved in great waves of ecstasy. The more love you give, the more light is released, and the more flows through your own system as it is drawn from higher dimensions. With a continual prayer of gratitude, choose complete union beyond any and all ego and you will truly call the electrons into a state where your beings will knit together through the energy centers of the chakras in a pattern of energy that is so powerful that it is equivalent to the atom bomb (the figure 8).
See a Womb of Creation between your two hearts. Your Double Helix intersects there, uniting you as One.
Meditate together, allowing the full receptivity to make your Womb of Creation fertile and ready to receive life. Join with Divine Mother.
Envision your desired creation and ensure that your intended creation is for the higher good of All that Is.

Now, plant the seed. Speak aloud what you are planting. Connect with the Divine Father, the penetrating light, knowing it is this light that has the power of planting the seed.
Feed your creation, by each fully allowing your femaleness or maleness to become an open channel for the Divine Female or Divine Male. Be sure that the energy pouring from you into your Womb of Creation is coming from Source, from the highest level of female or male, from the point where these energies move forth from God into Creation. This is just as important as joining your hearts.

Feel the excitement, the light in motion within this womb fill the mold of your creation. In this world of density, it requires dynamic feeling to move the energy. Keep your feelings UP. It will not suffice to simply be peaceful and serene with thoughts centered on God. It will not suffice to simply open your heart. The feelings of love and ecstasy must expand until they reach the point of critical mass.
Bring your creation to the physical plane by taking time to visualize your creation as clearly as possible as it will appear in the world. Feel it. Experience it. If you have difficulty doing this, describe verbally exactly what it will feel like, look like, and how you will experience it. This step brings the energy down the vibrational scale and anchors it here. This cools the energy form, slowing down its vibration for manifestation in this dimension.
Then speak the words of Power. Together (very important) visualize your throat chakras joined together, as part of that Double Helix that is your Twin Flame energy. Then together say, “It is created. It is now done.” (Say “now” unless you specifically wish to delay the manifestation.) You can also add any other powerful and definitive words of affirmation.
If you are physically with your beloved, when you do move your LoveMaking to the act of intercourse, seek to climax together and visualize this New Brilliant Dancing Light of Love in your joint heart blasting out in all directions to bathe the entire planet.

The Holy Grail
Sacred Sexuality is the Sacred Alchemical Marriage, the Holy Grail. To achieve this is to touch in perfect love, to see in perfect love, and completely open every particle of your being to giving perfect love, firmly establishing God at the apex of your union. Your Twin Flame union is the holy of holies within which you have the ability to heal the fabric of this world and return it to its glory. It is only as we become love that love will become what we see and what we live. It is now time to awaken as the fully grown Adam and Eve, loving all that is in our keeping.


Twin Souls, Twin Flames and Soul Mates
Stories and information regarding the challenges and gifts of the ultimate love union, the phenomena of spiritual twins or twin souls... two hearts that beat as one.

What are Soul Mates and Twin Souls?
Soul Mates are souls we The Love of Souls, Jean Delville, soulmates, twinsouls, twinflames, love, divine union, sacred sexuality, reincarnation, love, relationship, sex, spirituality, metaphysical, ascension, 11:11, lightworker, soul, spirit, god, goddesshave met and lived with in many life times. They have been our lovers, spouses, mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, teachers, students, friends, and family, or even our enemies, victims, or tormenters. We contract with these souls to return to earth together for greater learning and growth. 
Twin souls, also called Twin Flames or Twin Rays, are the other half of your soul. This is based on the belief that we are all parts of the Divine Being, God, All That Is, Source, Spirit, Creator. The Divine Being, in order to experience Its Self, divided into many souls, each in turn divided into many others and many others. The final splitting of the many neutrally gendered souls created male and female halves of a whole, the Twin Soul.
Soul Mates

We have many soul mates, the first larger splitting of souls. These souls resonate with us and there is a comfort in that recognition. We evolve and reincarnate with these souls through many lifetimes, learning lessons in our many unions and partings, you can say on some level we are all soul mates one with another, learning and growing together. Not all these lessons are loving or comforting as lessons in forgiveness and unconditional love are challenging. Sometimes we are the "victim", and sometimes we are the "darkness" that shows another soul their light. This is where freewill and choice comes into the "game", how we react or perceive our relationships. Someone can come into your life and cause you much pain and suffering, this is a soul contract between you to grow and evolve in love and forgiveness. This is one perception of karma, and one that will free you from the karmic cycle of "I kill you, now you kill me" type of karmic dance some souls are involved in for many lifetimes. You break the cycle by acting rather than reacting, by freeing the ego from the soul and learning to love and forgive even in suffering.
Our greatest joy and our greatest pain are both conceived in these soul mate relationships, our feelings intensified by our soul connections, whether for good or bad. You can often spot a soul mate or karmic relationship by "love at first site" or "revulsion at first site", depending upon the lessons you've contracted to learn from this soul.

One can live a lifetime in joy and harmony with a resonant soul mate, and this a beautiful, but rare gift.
Becoming "Whole" Before "Two" Becomes "One"

It is said that one does not meet their Twin Soul or Twin Flame until they have learned many lessons of love, loss and forgiveness through close Soul Mate relationships, that the heart is made resilient and strong through pain and loss, and must be so to face the intensity of being with the other half of their soul.

Many people who have met their Twin Soul had experienced a "Dark Night of the Soul", or a major spiritual transformation just prior to meeting, or upon meeting this soul. It's almost as if you need to be "emptied out" emotionally, spiritually and mentally as a test of your spirit. Meeting your "other half" can be a magical, maddening experience that opens your perceptions. Some experience an opening of their psychic awareness as their heart expands in this unbounded and unconditional love. The fact is, your life will not be the same, and whether you perceive this as a gift or a curse is the challenge of your soul's evolution. The Twin Soul connection is always a triad involving the Divine Spirit/All That Is, two people connected by soul, connected to God.

Before one can physically unite with their Twin Soul, one must do the conscious work of healing and becoming whole within their self. Twin Soul love cannot exist in a codependent, ego-based relationship, or from a perceived "need" that the other person will make you whole. Both must often face separations while they strengthen their own connection to Spirit and find their strength and purpose on their own.

Each half will find balance in their male/female, yin/yang before union. When both halves of the Soul become strong pillars on their own, have healed and resolved karmic ties in the present life, then they can unite to fulfill their Divine purpose, but the challenges do not end. There is an intensity that can be frightening when dealing with your mirror, your weaknesses and strengths magnified, unresolved issues and wounds painfully open to push you to further healing, or cause ego to run from the relationship in fear. It's important for Twin Souls to find their greater purpose, whether it's a task they will accomplish together, or alone, there will be work to be done.

Some Twin Souls do not unite physically here on Earth, and the relationship may last a lifetime on the spiritual level alone, while one or both may be living physically with another soul in karmic agreement. Some Twin Souls other halves are not even on the Earth plane at the same time and will offer guidance and comfort from beyond as a "guardian angel."
Psychic Connections and Synchronicity

Psychic and spiritual connection with your twin soul is intense and profound. Many experience a feeling of connection in a matrix of golden white threads of light, whether consciously or in a dream state. Some have strong psychic connection with their twin, feeling their thoughts embrace them mutually in an ecstatic place of comfort and bliss. You may feel your twin's pain and suffering in heart-wrenching anguish. Often physical symptoms are shared between twins, simultaneous nosebleeds, headaches, body aches are confirmed by both twins.

synchronicity: the coincidental occurrence of events and especially psychic events (as similar thoughts in widely separated persons or a mental image of an unexpected event before it happens) that seem related but are not explained by conventional mechanisms of causality; used especially in the psychology of C. G. Jung

Synchronicity plays an important part in twin soul meetings... I like to say that synchronicity is God's way of getting your attention. You may find simular experiences in the same timeframes before you even met, marriages, births, divorces, illnesses. You may find that you had lived as neighbors in totally different towns at some point in your lifes or vacationed in the same country at the same time. 
11:11 and Twin Souls

One of the most intriguing messages of synchronicity has to do with the numbers 11:11, you may find those numbers jumping out at you from digital clocks, restaurant receipts, license plates, phone numbers and such.

"The appearance of 11:11 is an always beneficial act of Divine Intervention. It tells you that it is time to take a good look around you and see what is real and what is illusory. It's time to pierce the veils of illusion which keep us bound to an unreal world. You have been chosen, because you are ready, to step into a Greater Reality. To lead the way for others into a new way of living, into a Greater Love. To ascend from duality into Oneness. The 11:11 is the bridge between duality and Oneness. It is our pathway into the Unknown. " from Solara & the 11:11

In numerology, the numbers 11 and 22 are master numbers, numbers that have their own unique meanings before being broken down into 2 and 4 respectively. In numerology the number 11 is often considered the number of the "spiritual messenger", a number of spiritual illumination signifying a channel for the information between the "higher" and "lower", a connection between conscious and unconscious, heaven and earth, yin and yang, male and female. Two "ones" joined, that make the pillars to the heavenly gate. The vibration and message of "two into one" and "ones' into two", the power of "one" twice amplified ... this is a perfect symbol of the twin soul.

Many twin flames have experienced this phenomena of 11's in birthdates, numerology, dates of meeting and such, and constantly receive the same 11:11 messages. I believe it can only be a symbol of the greater work that twin souls have been united on this earth to do. 
How Do You Know if You've Met Your Twin?
Romantic Day by Jim Warren

Meeting the "other half of your soul" is generally so life changing and profound that this question is unnecessary.... you just know. Twin souls will both recognize this extraordinary bond, whether they are evolved and whole enough to acknowledge and act upon it is another thing. Meeting with your twin soul brings about an internal spiritual revolution, a deeper connection and understanding of the Divine and the Universal Oneness, this is the greatest gift of knowing your twin. Twin soul love is not to be confused with an obsessive/compulsive disorder, it's not a desire to "possess" another, but truly a challenge to love unconditionally and without expectation, to be whole and complete within yourself before joining with the other whole and complete side of your soul. The longing and desire to be with your twin soul is intense, but through growth and perception can be seen as the greater longing to join with the Divine, and that is the true lesson, you are two halves of a much greater whole.

When you meet your twin, there will be no "game-playing" or manipulation, you will have the need to be transparently honest in your relationship and communication with one another. If there is karma from past lives to work out between you, it will be apparent and consciously worked out. If you or your twin is committed to another relationship, you will respect and honor that bond and realize the tests of unconditional love. Meeting your twin soul challenges you to grow spiritually, heal mentally, emotionally, physically, and to see beyond time, ego, and physical limitations. You will be driven with the desire to be the best manifestation of your soul on earth. This is not a relationship of hearts and flowers, but one that will be tested in fire and will endure beyond time and space.

I need to caution that all of these signs are not "proof" of meeting the other half of your soul, very often we are challenged by the meeting of a "near twin" or karmic soul mate that can mirror all these signs. In my own experience, the man I believed with my entire being of being my twinflame, turned out to be a karmic soul mate, and one of the most painful lessons of my life. Thus, this article has been rewritten eliminating some of the original text. After these few years of reflection, I've come to see that there are no guarantees in life, in all our lessons we are called to learn unconditional love, compassion and forgiveness, a meeting with a karmic soul mate can be the ultimate test of your spiritual evolution. Many people have written me, asking me to somehow confirm their belief that they have met their twin soul. There is no confirmation until the ultimate reunion with Divine Source, until then the greatest message I have received is, "Do not fear being "wrong."

In other words, if we are so determined to believe that this or that certain person is our twin, we tend to become blinded to the rest of the lessons in life. Life is about love in all forms, how can we truly grow without trusting in the wisdom of the Universe to bring to us those which will teach us best? Love is not about expectation, love is without condition, but relationships on this Earth are all about conditions. I would advise anyone who believes they have met their twin, yet is in such pain from that meeting, that perhaps the time for union is not right, or that they are enmeshed in a karmic soul mate or "near twin" relationship. Only in "letting go" can we be prepared to receive what is truly ours. There are some that believe the "reunion" with our twinflame is truly within, that we carry the essence of our beloved within our soul, and we are challenged to manifest that love in all we do, without attachment, without expectation, we become ONE.

I hope you find clarity and comfort in the articles, features and links about Soul Mates, Twin Souls & Twin Flames that I've collected on these pages.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Daily Affirmations FOR YOU

Every day in every way I am getting better and better
Everything I need is coming to me easily and effortlessly.
My life is blossoming in total perfection.
I have everything I need to enjoy my here and now.
I am the master of my life.
Everything I need is already within me.
Perfect wisdom is in my heart.
I am whole and complete in myself.
I love and appreciate myself just as I am.
I accept all my feelings as part of me.
I love to love and be loved.
The more I love myself, the more love I have to give others.
I now give and receive love freely.
I am now attracting loving, satisfying relationships
 into my lives.
My relationship with WIFE / GIRL FRIEND is growing
Happier and more fulfilling every day.
I now have a satisfying, well paying job as well as
I am doing excellent in the field of my interest.
I love doing my work, and I am richly rewarded,
Creatively and financially.
I have become timefree/financially free.
I am open channel of creative energy.
I am dynamically self-expressive.
I enjoy relaxing and having fun.
I communicate clearly and effectively.
I now have enough time, energy, wisdom, and money to
Accomplish all my desires.
I am always in the right place at the right time,
Successfully engaged in the right activity.
It’s okay for me to have everything I want!
This is an abundant universe and there’s plenty for all of me.
Abundance is my natural state of being.
Every day I am growing more financially prosperous.
The more I have, the more I have to give.
The more I give, the more I receive, and the happier I feel.
It’s okay for me to have fun and enjoy myself, and I do!
I am relaxed and centered.
I have plenty of time for everything.
I am now enjoying everything I do.
I feel happy just being alive.
I am healthy and beautiful!
I am open to receiving all the blessings
Of this abundant universe!
is coming to me, easily and effortlessly.
I have a wonderful job with wonderful pay.
I do a wonderful service in a wonderful way.
The light within me is creating miracles in my life here and now.
All things are now working together for good in my lives.
I am now attuned to my higher purpose in life.
I now recognize, accept, and follow the divine plan of my life as it is revealed to me step by step.
I give thanks now for my life of health, happiness, and self expression.

I find prosperity in simplicity.
This is an abundant universe and there is plenty for all of me.
Abundance is my true state of my being. I am now ready to accept it fully and joyously.
God is the unfailing, unlimited source of all my supply.
I deserve to be prosperous and happy.
I am now prosperous and happy!
The more I prosper, the more I have to sham with everyone else.
I am ready now to accept all the joy and prosperity life has to offer me.
The world is now becoming an abundant place for everyone.
Financial success is coming to me easily and effortlessly.
I am now enjoying financial prosperity!
Life is meant to be fun and I now willing to enjoy it!
I am rich in consciousness and manifestation.
I now have plenty of money for my own personal needs and needs of my family.
I now have a satisfying income of $100000 per year.
I feel deeply satisfied with my financial situation.
I feel rich, well, and happy.
I am lovable.
I am kind and loving, and I have a great deal to sham with others.
I am talented, intelligent, and creative.
I am attractive.
I deserve the very best in life.
I have a lot to offer and everyone recognizes it.
I love the world and the world loves me.
I am willing to be happy and successful.
I am open to receiving the blessings of this abundant universe.
Everything good is coming to me easily and effortlessly.
I accept my good, which is flowing to me here and now.
I deserve the best and the best is coming to me now.
The more I receive, the more I have to give.
I love and accept myself completely as I am.
I don’t have to try to please anyone else. I like myself and that’s what counts.
I am highly pleasing to myself in the presence of other people.
I express myself freely, fully, and easily.
I am wonderful, loving and creative being.
I am now releasing my past.
I am now dissolving all negative, limiting beliefs.
I now forgive and release everyone in my life.
I don’t have to try to please others. I am naturally
Lovable and likable no matter what I do!
I now let go of all accumulated guilt, fears,
Resentment, disappoints, and grudges.
I am free and clear!
All of my negative self-images and attitudes is
now dissolved. I love and appreciate myself!
All barriers to my full expression
And enjoyments of life are now dissolved.
The world is a beautiful place to be.
The universe always provides.
The more I outflow, the more space I create for
Good things to come to me.
I love giving and I love receiving.
As I clean up and clear out my physical space I am
Clearing up and clearing out my life in every way.
I accept myself completely here and now.
I love myself as I am.
I accept all my feelings as part of myself.
I am beautiful and lovable human being.
None of my feelings am negative. They are all important parts of who I am.
I am now willing to experience all my feelings.
It’s good to express my feelings. I now give myself permission to express my feelings.
I love myself when I express my feelings.
Its okay for me to have fun and enjoy myself, and I do!
I like to do things that make me feel good.
I am deeply relaxed and centered.
I now feel deep inner peace and serenity.
I am glad I am born and I love being alive.
My relationship is mirror that show me myself.
I am now learning from all the relationships.
My relationships are helping me to heal and love myself.
I am strong, vulnerable, and loving in my relationships.
I deserve love and sexual pleasure.
I am now ready to accept for my relationship to work.
I love myself and I naturally attract loving relationships into my life.
I am now attracting exactly the kind of relationship I want.
I am now divinely irresistible to my perfect mate.
All difficulties on me are being healed now.
The more I love myself, the more I love others.
I am now open channel for creative energy.
Creative ideas and inspiration is coming to me everyday.
I am the creator of my life.
I am now creating my life exactly as I want it.
Divine love is doing its perfect work in this situation now
For the good of all concerned.
Divine love and light am working through me now.
Divine love goes before me and prepares the way.
God is showing me the way now.
My inner wisdom is guiding me now.
I am now being guided to the perfect solution to this problem.
The light within me is creating miracles in my body,
Mind, and affairs, here and now.
Every day I am growing healthier and more attractive.
Everything I do add to my health and beauty.
Everything I eat adds to my health, beauty,
And attractiveness.
I am good to my body, and my body is good to me.
I am now slender, strong, and in perfect condition no matter what I do.
I am growing stronger and more wonderful everyday.
I now desire to eat only those things that are best for me at any given time.
I get hungry only for the foods my body really needs.
The more I love and appreciate myself, the more beautiful I am becoming.
I am now irresistibly attractive to men (or women).
I love my body as it is.
I am naturally attractive as I am.
I like to think of myself as an artist, and my life is my greatest work of art. Every moment is a moment of creation, and each moment of creation contains infinite possibilities. I can do things the way I have always done them, or I can look at all the different alternatives, and try something new and different and potentially more rewarding. Every moment presents a new opportunity and a new decision.
What a wonderful game I am all playing, and what a magnificent art form….