Tuesday, April 26, 2016


The law of attraction is always working in your life, so if you are attracting losers, then something about what you are doing is attract those losers.

Why It’s So Hard To Make The Law Of Attraction Work Positively For Attracting Someone

The law of attraction says that you attract into your life what you think about most, and when you are single it is hard not to think about being single most of the time! For instance, you can easily focus on being lonely, which only attracts more loneliness into your life.

In addition, it’s hard not to worry about attracting losers into your life that are going to treat you the same way your ex’s did.

It’s also hard not to think about your next relationship falling apart, going through many struggles, and ending badly. But, all of this only attracts more unhealthy and unhappy relationships.

Knowing all of that, it is no surprise that the law of attraction doesn’t often work for attracting the perfect relationship. Too many people are simply tuned into the wrong thoughts and wrong vibration to attract their ideal partner. Following are some ways to fix that and start making the law of attraction for relationships work for you.

Always Focus On What Your Heart Desires Most

You probably know that you need to focus on exactly what you want in a partner. For instance, creating a list of all the things you are looking for in someone can help you keep focused on that person and that future relationship. It is a great way to keep your expectations high and not allow yourself to develop a mindset of settling for whoever shows up next.

But, the biggest thing to remember is that you have to focus on what you want more than on what you don’t want. For instance, you want to focus on making your next relationship an amazing one instead of one that matches your past relationships.

That can be easier said than done, but remember that by labeling your future relationships as negative, you are attracting negative relationships into your life.

That’s why it’s important to look at your list of your perfect partner AND label your future relationships as positive, fun, rewarding, exciting, and fulfilling. Focus on what your heart desires most by visualizing a happy relationship and getting excited for all the love and fun you will be feeling.

Don’t Label Yourself Negatively

Another problem is self-doubt and low self-confidence. If you think that you are not worthy of attracting a great partner, then guess what you are going to manifest into your life? You are going to manifest someone who meets your vibration about how you feel about yourself.

Starting today, work on your confidence. Use positive affirmations and positive self-talk to boost your view of yourself and raise your energy. Become the fun, awesome person that you want to attract into your life and let the universe take care of the rest.

A New Way To Look At Who You Are Attracting

There is a thought that the perfect partner is going to be sunshine and lollipops, but the truth is the perfect partner for you may not result in a bump-free relationship. They may not be the ‘perfect’ vision you have in your mind, but they may be perfect for you.

In other words, if you think you are doing everything right to attract love, you may also be doing everything right to attract someone who will help you develop patience, understanding, or whatever else you want (or need) to develop. Listen to Jack Canfield explain it.

Enjoy Your Single Life To Attract A Relationship

It is important to enjoy your life as a single person. You can desire the perfect partner, but if you feel that life is not complete without someone else, then you are sending negative messages to the universe that you don’t want to feel complete. (Remember, what you focus on most is what the universe thinks you want to attract.) Those messages will set you up to attract someone who makes you feel as though you are not complete.

That rule stands true for every negative belief. For instance:

– If you are not happy, you will attract someone who doesn’t make you unhappy
– If you do not feel like people in your life are honest, you will attract someone who is not honest
– If you feel like people in your life don’t treat you with respect, you will attract someone who does not treat you with respect

The qualities that you have, and beliefs you have about yourself and your current relationships, will have a direct influence over the type of person you attract.

So, clear out your current life of unhealthy relationships, become confident in yourself and how you feel other people should treat you, and get ready to attract that perfect person into your life.

Trust In The Law Of Attraction For Relationships You Want

Some people who are religious have an unwavering trust in their faith. They give their desires and concerns to a higher power, and they let that power take care of their life. If you ever take notice of their successes and failures, you will often see that their faith plays a huge part in the whole thing.

Just like love, joy, and anger are vibrations of energy, so is faith – and it is a high and powerful vibration. In short, faith will help you attract what you expect.

So, whether you are religious or not, have faith that the law of attraction is going to work for you. Have faith that the universe is going to bring you exactly what you desire most in a partner as long as you keep your thoughts positive and your vibration high. Have faith that like attracts like and you will attract someone decent and loving into your life.

The Law Of Attraction Is Going To Work For You One Way Or Another

Here’s what I know for sure – Whether you use the above tips or not, the law of attraction is always working in your life. Depending on your thoughts and energy, you may attract no one into your life, someone unwanted into your life, or the perfect relationship into your life.

The good news is that you have the choice to tweak your thoughts, raise your vibration, and attract that perfect someone. Changing your viewpoint about your future relationships and your current self can be hard, but it can be done. So why not make the law of attraction work in your favor?


You are a blessing. Tell her out loud you are thankful for her. Gratitude is critical for great connection. This affirmation is especially great to say in the morning. When you declare her a blessing first thing, gratitude becomes the lens through which you see your relationship which prevents conflict.You are beautiful. Her outward physical beauty is important to affirm. Never stop complimenting your wife’s physical beauty. Some women with poor self image try to sabotage their husband’s affirmations, persist with your affirmation anyway. Inner beauty includes positive personality characteristics you find attractive. “I love the way you really care about people you interact with, you are beautiful.”You are loved. Sure, we overuse the word love for everything. “I love bacon, I love power tools, I love Netflix.” But declaring your love in a relationship IS special. You may even remember the first time you told her you loved her. Even if you think she should already know, tell her she is loved every day.You are desired. In their book Captivating John and Stasi Eldredge share how every woman has a deep craving to be desirable. Pursue your wife in a way which demonstrates she is desired and you will connect deeper than ever before.You are a great wife. Of all the relationships you have in your life, your marriage relationship is uniquely special. Affirm her success in your relationship. Tell her she is doing a great job of loving you.

Applause affirmations for Wife

Let’s drown out those voices with the applause of affirmation – words of beauty, truth, and love that every wife wants to hear, but also needs to hear often. Here are 102 to help you get started.

1)   You give a lot, and I appreciate how much you give.

2)   You are beautiful.

3)   You make me want to be a better man.

4)   Thanks for your faithfulness to our family.

5)   You are a godly woman.

6)   I’ve learned a lot from you.

7)   I’ve seen you grow so much.

8)   I like spending time with you.

9)   You’re fun to be with.

10) What a fantastic meal!

11) You make wonderful things.

12) Thanks for your diligence in running this house.

13) Our kids are so fortunate to have you as their mother.

14) God wanted me to be happy . . . that’s why He made you my wife.

15) You bring out the best in me.

16) You are a fantastic person.

17) You are a deep river.

18) You’re as beautiful to me as the day we married.

19) My favorite place to be is with you.

20) I wouldn’t be half the man I am without you.

21) You make loving fun.

22) You complete me.

23) God said, “It’s not good for a man to be alone.” It’s sure good to be with you!

24) When I’m gone this week, just remember, home is where my heart is.

25) You are my world.

26) The Bible tells men: Love your wife like Christ loves the Church . . . I like my job!

27) I like going out with you . . . what are you doing tonight?

28) The laundry never stops coming . . . and you never quit. You’re amazing and, I really appreciate it.

29) You are a hard worker.

30) You’re so smart.

31) I value your insight.

32) You have a lot to offer.

33) I really admire your inner strength

34) I’m glad our kids have (will have) such an excellent role model.

35) You are (will be) an amazing mother.

36) You know you’re my best friend, don’t you?

37) I don’t know what I would do without you.

38) You make me a happy man.

39) I’m amazed at the women you’ve become.

40) You accomplish a lot.

41) You are so thoughtful.

42) Thank you for respecting me.

43) I’m grateful I can trust you with anything.

44) I have total confidence in you.

45) I’m proud to be your husband.

46) God knew what I needed. That’s why He brought us together.

47) I respect the woman you are.

48) My hat’s off to you!

49) You’ve got great ideas.

50) I married up!

51) I rely on your intuition.

52) You’re the finest woman on the planet!

53) I can face anything with you by my side.

54) I married a winner!

55) Our kids love (are going to love) you so much.

56) You are the best woman I know.

57) I don’t deserve you . . . but, I’m glad you’re mine!

58) I want to grow old with you.

59) Thank you for being so good to me.

60) You’re an awesome lover.

61) I don’t need anything else – just you.

62) I only have eyes for you.

63) I’ll always be faithful to you.

64) You never have to wonder where I am.

65) Thank you for standing by me.

66) I really appreciate your loyalty.

67) You are a great cook/chef.

68) You’re so creative.

69) I know you strive to please me . . . and believe me, you’re successful!

70) I love what you make.

71) You are one talented woman!

72) You never stop giving.

73) You look fabulous in that outfit!

74) You make me look good!

75) When you walked into the room, you took my breath away.

76) You are an excellent wife and I’m a blessed man.

77) You bring me joy.

78) I love the home that you’ve created.

79) You work hard to make things wonderful.

80) The Song of Solomon has nothing on you!

81) I’m a better man because of you.

82) You are a unique person.

83) I’m glad I married you!

84) You’ll always have my heart.

85) Your heart is safe with me.

86) God knew exactly what I needed in a woman.

87) You are God’s perfect choice for me.

88) I wouldn’t want any other life than the one I am living with you.

89) You are my dream girl.

90) You are a beautiful person, inside and out.

91) You’ve got what it takes to make things happen.

92) You impress me, you really do!

93) You are a woman of integrity.

94) I admire you.

95) I’m proud of how you handled situations like that.

96) You’re no pushover. I love your spine of steel.

97) You are a considerate person, of me, and of everyone else.

98) You’re one in a million . . . and you’re mine!

99) I’m a rich man because you are my wife.

100) I’d be happy with you anywhere!

101) You make it all worth while. I wouldn’t want it any other way.

102) I’ll love you forever.

Ho'oponopono Mantra

 Ho'oponopono Mantra.

Dear Father: Here we acknowledge the Creator who gives Unconditional Love.  If you believe that you are the result of an explosion or worse still that you created yourself, you are going to have a lot of trouble with this one.The word Father means "Giver Of Life" and I am sure you realise that it has nothing to do with bearded patriarchs.Addressing the Creator is fundamental to this process, since only the Creator can fix the mess that we (and our ancestors) have created.
 I am sorryThis statement opens the door to atonement.  The moment you take responsibility for any negative manifestation you experience or witness you also create an opportunity for healing. The apology is not directed to the Creator.  The Creator is Spirit and does not need nor care about apologies. The apology is an acknowledgement that we are sorry for whatever it is that we (or our ancestors before us) have done to cause the adverse circumstance to take place.There is no need to grovel, just a simple "I am sorry" will do.
 Please forgive meWe are asking for forgiveness for having forgotten how much the Creator loves us.We are asking for forgiveness for having shut out the Creator from our lives and missing out on all the wonderful experiences that we could have had.We ask for forgiveness with the absolute certainty that it has already been granted.  The Creator is Spirit and is Unconditional Love, incapable of experiencing feelings of anger, resentment and all the other ego related neurotic behaviours that afflict humans.It is important to note here that Ho'oponopono practitioners never have to forgive anyone, since they realise that all wrongdoing is the result of their own wrong action or memories--past or present. I love youWhen Jesus was asked "which is the greatest commandments of them all" he surprised everyone (typical) and stated "You shall love the Lord Your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind."Love is a great healing power.  Sending the Creator an SMS of love will reverberate through your psyche and generate an immediate feeling of well being.Once again being pure Spirit, the Creator, does not need your love, but the very act of thinking loving thoughts will tune your mind to that frequency with remarkable and immediate results.
 And I thank youAs stated  earlier, whatever your petition or concern, the moment you take responsibility for its occurrence and seek a way out--you are guaranteed a response.Almost invariably the response will never be what you expect (or in some cases want)--but what you need to start the process of healing or reconstruction.Your "thank you" is the acknowledgement that your petition has been heard and acted upon--that is all.

Thursday, April 21, 2016

Fantastic Relationship

Visualize your fantastic relationship and it will come to pass!

Visualization is an excellent tool to bring to reality your goals and dreams. Here are 10 tips to maximize your effectiveness when using visualization to attract a relationship to you.

1. Be Consistent

Occasional visualization is much less effective than consistent, daily visualization. Even a few minutes each day is enough time to be effective if done consistently.

2. Inject Emotion

Feel the emotions that you would have if you had found the love of your life. Would you feel peace, security, all tingly, excited, joyful? Whatever feelings you associate with being in a loving relationship, mix those sensations into the time you spend visualizing.

3. Focus On What You Want

Be sure to always see what you want and not what you don't want. Keep yourself positive. While visualizing, you'll often have a big smile on your face if you are really focused on the picture you desire, and are enjoying the experience of seeing it in your mind.

4. Integrate All Your Senses Into Your Visualization
Get really detailed. Imagine traveling to a place you've always wanted to go, and exploring the region with your partner. See yourself eating the food of that area. What does it taste like? What are the smells surrounding you? What sounds to you hear? If you are on a beach, feel the sand between your toes as you watch a sunset together.

5. Create A Vision Board, Collage, Or Dream Notebook

Cut out pictures of couples doing things together or embracing,kissing, and holding hands. Look at these images every day for a few minutes. You can also have a picture of a couple pasted on your bathroom mirror, on your desk or any other place where you will see it frequently throughout the day.

6. Place Hearts, Sculptures, Art, or Symbols Of Love Throughout Your Home

Have fun decorating your home with items that represent love to you. Each time your eyes rest upon of these items, you will be reminded of your goal to attract a relationship to you.

7. Reorganize Your Bedroom

Make sure you have some space for your future partner by having an empty drawer for his or her clothes, and visualize those clothes in those spaces. Create room for your new love to place a few things on the nightstand or dresser. You may even want to hire with a Feng Shui consultant to ensure your home and bedroom are organizated to attract love.

8. Be Happy For Others When They Find Love

Congratulate friends when they find a person they love. Enjoy weddingsand anniversaries. Visualize yourself being congratulated and celebrated when you are coupled as well.

9. Be Patient

What you want, wants you. But you must be truly available and open to new love. Be sure you are ready for a relationship. Clear out conflicts in your mind, blocks, and busyness that sabotage your readiness for a relationship. Then be persistent in your efforts at visualization and other tools and activities you might be engaged in to find a relationship.

10. Have Faith

Finding the love of your life cannot be rushed. Desperation and a feeling of urgency rarely assists you in achieving your goal. Relax, go have some fun and believe it is possible for you.

Visualization can be a fun and enjoyable tool to practice when you desire to attract a relationship to you. Get creative and try many variations of visualization to prevent boredom and instead create excitement. Soon your vision will be a reality!

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Visualize for Love

Creative Visualizations for Love

To manifest love through creative visualization, you first need to learn how to suspend or hold an image of the desired outcome in your mind in as much detail as possible.
For instance, let's say that you need to resolve an argument with a dear friend. The first thing you need to do is empty your head as much as possible of all thoughts so that your mind seems like a blank slate. It is also essential that you get as still and as quiet as possible to encourage a meditative state. Some find playing a favorite piece of music encourages one's imaging faculties.
Before imagining any goal, you might want to assist your imagination by asking yourself a number of questions. What does your friend look like? How is she wearing her hair the day that you run across each other? Is this a random meeting or does the phone ring first? What kind of conversation will you have on the phone? Where exactly will you meet? What is the expression on her face when she sees you? If you want her to smile when she sees you, picture her smiling. Picture her hugging you. Picture what you don't think is possible. Visualize, in the greatest detail possible, the best outcome to the situation possible. Experts say that the more detail that you can imagine, the more likely you are to manifest the event in the future.
Picture the individual that you are concerned about in as full detail as possible. Now imagine that the person is shrinking smaller and smaller until he or she easily fits in the palm of your hand.
Now imagine your heart as a tiny red house with a door. Open the door to one of the chambers and put the tiny person inside and close it. In your mind, reassure the person that they are "safe in your heart."
You are at the cosmetics counter of a fancy department store. A smiling woman dressed in pink and gold offers you a sample of a cream to try for free. The jar is gold. The label on the jar reads Love Magnet Cream.
You take the cream home and open the jar. Inside is a glowing pink cream. You take this cream and apply it to your hands. As you do you feel a pleasant tingling sensation wash over you. As you apply more, it transforms your skin, making it radiate a transparent pink, silver and gold light.
As you apply this cream to the rest of your body, you feel yourself growing younger, happier and more vibrant with health. You imagine yourself becoming more magnetic to love.
You decide to get up and take a walk. Let your imagination take you to where you want to go. Where does your imagination lead you? Who do you meet on your path? Whoever manifests in your visualizations can give you clues to the direction your love life should take.
Imagine that you are strolling through a desert at night. You have been stranded in this desert for forty days. You feel dirty and thirsty, but there are no plants, no ponds and no water to be had at all.
You look up in the sky and see thousands of fat, shining stars. You look up at one star and make a wish. Suddenly the star falls and plops into the sand below you.
Even though you are very dehydrated, you find yourself shedding one tear. This tear lands on the site of the fallen star.
To your amazement, a sprig of green shoots up through the desert floor. This soft tendril grows in accelerated motion. It unfurls leaves and a giant bud. It is up to you to picture what kind of flower it is, but it is not a flower that you have ever seen on earth. The flower is huge, the size of your head or even larger. The bud opens up to reveal its petals. Notice the flower's vibrant color. Inhale its heady and alluring fragrance. Does it smell like fruit, or roses or chocolate? Touch the petals. Do they feel like satin, feathers or velvet? When you touch the flower it begins to emit beautiful music. Try to imagine what this flower looks like in as much detail as you can...
As the flower opens up you notice that it is cupping a small pond full of water. You scoop this refreshing liquid up into your hands and bathe your face, hands and body with it. You take a long, refreshing cool drink from between your cupped hands.
After you have drunk from the center of the flower, you look up and notice that more stars are falling from the sky. They plant themselves in the ground and spring up tendrils and buds. At first there are just a few of these flowers, but soon, more fall. To your amazement no one flower seems to be the same as another. As each one blooms they spill water onto the barren ground forming ponds and pools with waterfalls. Many of these plants grow large and house birds and other animals. The heady aroma of the perfume of this enchanted forest fills your nostrils. You take deep exhalations and relax in this magical place filled with music, flowing water, nature and the velvety blackness of the night sky.
Your relaxation is interrupted when you hear a noise. You sit up and see a person approaching you. What does this person look like? Have you met him or her before?

This person reaches out to you and embraces you. The person that manifests in this visualization can provide you with important astral information about what it is you need to correct in your love life or whom you might meet in the future.