Wednesday, August 29, 2012


Jealousy is a common human feeling and usually stems from a place of lack in our own lives.
Jealousy is one of the toughest feelings we come up against in our lives. There is not much worse than this aching sense that somehow life has been unfair to us, while amply rewarding someone else. It’s even worse if that someone else is present in our daily lives, making it difficult for us to get the space we need to feel and heal our pain. We may be jealous of a sibling, a dear friend, or even famous personalities. We may even face the challenge of feeling jealous of our spouse, our child, or one of our parents. Whatever the case, we can normalize our experience by understanding that, as painful as it is, jealousy is a common human feeling.

Nevertheless, it is important that we not revel in our jealousy for too long, feeding it with inner talk or gossip with others. If we do, we run the risk of losing ourselves to its negative power. Jealousy has something good to offer us, though, and that is information about our own heart’s desire. When we are jealous of certain people, we want what they have, and if we are to be conscious, we must acknowledge that. In this way, we discover what we want for ourselves, which is the first step to getting it. It may be a certain kind of relationship or a career. Whatever it is, it is possible that we could create it for ourselves, in our own lives, if we are able to honor our own desires.

Of course, there are times when we cannot heal our jealousy in this way, and then the lesson may be about acceptance and the understanding that our path is different from the paths of those around us. It may be hard to see now, but perhaps it will eventually be clear why our life has taken its particular path. In the end, the best cure for jealousy is the recognition that the life we have is full of its own meaning and beauty, utterly unique to us—a gift that could never be found in the life of another.

Bedtime Ritual

Bedtime can be a perfect time for a nighttime ritual of sending love to the world and finding gratitude for your day

At the end of the day, as the sweet, dark stillness of night beckons us to lay down our bones and rest, we find ourselves at a clear transition point: Behind us lies the previous day and all that has come before; ahead of us, dawn heralds the unfolding of all that is yet to be. While many of us have morning rituals that connect us with our center and help us to set intentions, we may want to explore the magic and power of nighttime ritual as well. It holds for us a beautiful chance for self-appreciation and blessing. Before you go to bed each night, you can send gratitude, compassion, and healing to the being you have been up until this moment. And you can send lightness and love into the future for the one you are in the process of becoming.

Though simple, this action honors the journey you have taken thus far, while opening you to the wonderful possibilities still ahead. When you consciously engage with your own evolution this way, you may find that your sleep gets sweeter, filling your night with a deeper sense of trust and relaxation. As you rest, you can surrender to these peaceful hours, knowing that the road behind you has been seen and acknowledged with respect and kindness, while the path ahead now holds your own benevolence and well wishes.

This bedtime ritual empowers you as the only one who can determine the meaning of your own past and the hopefulness of your future. By setting this special time aside each night, you can begin to orient yourself on your path of growing. It allows you to let the past have its place, to trust that the future is taken care of, and to simply rest yourself in the graceful arms of the present moment.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012


If you happen to read Robert Schwartz's Your Soul's Plan you will come to know that Every Soul, plans all the challenges in life with his/her/its soul group before coming to earth.
Depending on the lesson to be learnt a soul may choose to come to life on earth with difficult partners, friends, relatives, family members. Other souls happily participate in the drama of our life so that we can learn our lessons, lessons of patience, resilience, love, understanding, compassion. This is all arranged. If you have a difficult person in your life he/she does not necessarily be a bad or a beginner soul. Hey may even be a spiritual guide volunteered to incarnate on earth so that you can learn. Just see how much they love us unconditionalty to be born on earth just for us.
Again, different people with different ideologies and understandings have their own interpretations. I dont wont to add a separate ideology of mine here. I just want to say that this has changed the way I look at people who (in the past) made my life difficult. Now I am more at peace with whatever happens to me and whoever has done it.
If I may also add to this discussion, That there is no karma. Nothing is Good Nothing is Bad. Please do not fall into the trap of categorizing, analyzing anything.
If I do this I attract Good Karma, If I do that I attract Bad karma....Remember that by doing so the predominant thought at the back of your mind is Karma and by the law of attraction that is what you attract all your life.
I am saying so becuase I have been through this and have come to an understanding.
Just Experience, Learn the Lesson, Move On, Leave Everything else Behind.
You have my word, life will be more easy and at peace. You will get everything you have ever desired for.

Thursday, August 9, 2012


I have been so blinded by my passion the last 5 years that I almost forgot my passion. Do you ever stop to ask yourself what you truly love to do? Do you ever think to yourself, “Am I really serving my purpose here on earth?”
Take me for a moment. I’ve been so laser focused to get my VOICE out to the world that I forgot to share my Voice. I forgot that I have this undeniable passion for writing. I love to share my thoughts, feelings,  experiences, and passions with you. I mean, How could I be so blind?
Here I am day in and day out trying to figure out systems and strategies to get my voice out there, and I forgot the most powerful tool of all, The Pen!
(well, the computer nowadays).
Well, I’ve got something to say damn it, and so do you! Haven’t you ever felt like you’ve been cooped up for too long. But the truth is; no one is stopping you, no one is preventing you from standing up and sharing your voice, no one is keeping you down and telling you ‘you can’t do it,’ EXCEPT the little voice in your head that teases you, instills self doubt, and creeps up at the most inopportune times.
What if that little voice disappeared? What if you woke up one day and that little voice was overshadowed by an even bigger voice. A voice that will stand at the top of the mountain top  and will scream till the sun sets upon us. A voice that will speak in the face of danger and will keep  each and everyone of us safe. A voice that knows no limitations to its reach and expands beyond all horizons  of possibility. A Voice that is so true, so clear, so pure, it pierces the very ears of the weak and opens the very hearts of the strong. What if you opened up to the possibilities of that voice? What if you welcomed in the very power of that voice.
What if, just what if, that voice were your true passion knocking at your door. Not your #2 “Passion”, not the someday maybe I’ll get to that “Passion”,  not the let me make some money first “Passion”, But what if your passion were that voice speaking to you! And if you just listened and opened yourself to the possibilities of that passion, you could move mountains! Hoo-Haaaaaa!!!!!!!
I believe in that voice. I wait for that voice. I live for that voice. Every day, I journey into the unknown expecting that voice, hoping for that voice, and praying for that voice. Because I know that when I hear it, it is unmistakable. There is no voice, no sound, no thing on the planet that quite rings like that voice. Do you know the voice that I am talking about? It’s the voice that makes you feel safe, at peace, joyful, loved, connected, and powerful. For without it you are lost, but with it you can do no wrong. It is, my friend, the voice of Passion!
Never forget to stop and listen for that voice!
So, I want YOU to take a stand today! Declare that today is the day, that you listen and share your voice. In that moment, when you feel like someone else’s opinion is overshadowing your voice; when you feel like you want to speak up, but your fear wants to keep you down; when you feel like something is about to come through you but you hesitate to let it out; when you know that this is your moment, but it’s safer to wait for the next moment; when you are convinced that your words won’t make a difference, so you decide not to speak them; when you feel like all hope is lost, and there’s nothing you can say or do about it; when you’re about to give up because you have tried everything possible; when the world is doubting you and you begin to doubt yourself; when you have come to the end of your rope, and the struggle gets to great; when you feel like this is the end, but you know it’s just the beginning; when you think your time is later, but your time is really now;
that it is time to speak your voice. It is time to roar from the mountain tops, it is time to let freedom rain, it is time to share your knowing, it is time to unleash your passion, it is now that the world must hear you, it is here that the world will feel you, it is given that the world must know you, it is a disservice for the world to never know you, it is this moment, this pinnacle, this outcry, this emotion, this vibration, this experience, this expression, this revolution, this evolution, this power that must be released from the very core of your soul and the very center of your being…for it is your center that is the center of the universe WHEN YOU SPEAK; and then we know that you have SPOKEN! You are my hero. Take a stand today and let the world hear you roar, my brother/sister.

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Entrepreneur or Victim? It's Really Your Choice August 2, 2012 By Davidbullock

“Shallow men believe in luck, believe in circumstances….Strong men

believe in cause and effect.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

Every thought you have has its own frequency and its own unique neural

resonance. That thought then elicits a physical response from the
quantum universe. Neural resonance can be described as the process in
which the brain reinforces specific thought patterns over time. The
impact of this response varies depending upon how one reinforces that
initial thought. Things don’t arbitrarily happen to you. Events in
your life and business are a reflection of your thoughts. They are an
echo of your own actions and the thoughts which employ those actions.
In Eastern worldviews, this truth is reflected through the idea of
Karma. In Western worldviews it is called the Golden Rule. What many
do not yet realize, is that both of these schematics share the same
underlying principles.

Your thoughts directly relate to the universe and your actions…
Your actions are directly related to your success and the success of
your business…

For many people, this is a challenging principle because it puts you
squarely in the driver’s seat. Embracing this principle means you no
longer have the luxury of blaming other people or external
circumstances for the things that happen in your life.

Here is the flip side of that equation: Embracing this principle also
means you have far more capacity to create the events and
circumstances in your life than you have ever imagined possible.

When we don’t recognize this principle operating in our lives, it’s
easy to start seeing ourselves as being the effect of those events.
Rather than seeing that we are making things happen, we start to
believe that things are simply happening to us. This easily leads to
what is often called the victim mentality.

If you are someone who is trying to operate a successful business,
there is no place for that victim mentality in your life. These two
states of mind—victim thinking and entrepreneurship—are 100 percent

The word entrepreneur derives from the French word that refers to the
source of the event, the one who initiates. Building and growing a
successful business requires a commitment to being at cause, not at

There are many things you need to know to successfully play the game
of business. A great many of them you can learn as you go, and a great
many skills and fields of expertise you can bring into your business
by hiring or partnering with people who possess them.

But there is one skill you must have yourself, and it is the single
most important skill of any successful businessperson, the one without
which success is impossible: You must be practiced at creating the
thoughts that will serve your business.

Creating a clear business vision is the critical first step to your
success, but it’s just that: the first step. No matter how crystal
clear it is, simply having a goal doesn’t make it happen. If you want
to create financial freedom for yourself, five key elements have to be
in place. The Five Musts are:

You must find something that stirs your soul.
You must become excellent at it.
You must recondition your mind to believe you can have it and achieve it.
You must understand how to make money at it.
You must take daily action.