The concept of soulmate is entirely different.  Before marrying how many seekers are asking God to show his/her life companion?  Very few.  So, we are depending on our  self will or freewill.  Generally people are marrying a person chosen by either parents or relatives or recommended by friends or by involving in love affairs.

But in case of spiritual life companion or Soulmate .. spiritually speaking .. will be chosen by God alone, will intimate during deeper meditations by way of God guided intuitive instruction. In such cases it is divine will.  Those who receive such divine instructions have to follow the said intuition otherwise the receiver may face some unwanted consequences for not implementing the said divine will.

You might have been observed  a special prayer ..  How to Pray to find your Soulmate .. in white light kriya yoga.  If the seeker is going on to pray to God basing on  his/her devotion during the meditation, the said seeker will receive divine instructions  and can visualize  soulmate also. 

I know it practically,  many pyramid meditators selected their life companions and spotted them during their deeper meditations.  The said persons may not be belonged to the same religion, same status, same religion, same caste etc.  How God will select nobody knows.

In such selection, once the seeker spotted his/her soulmate, if they don't have pre set of conditions within the mind, they can experience the abnormal joy within.

Once the seeker spotted his/her soulmate, or received any divine instruction during deeper meditations, it is better to inform to his/her parents in advance, so that they will not have any problem in married life or to get married also. The hidden essence is the seeker's spiritual magnetism attracts his/her spiritual life companion.

Yogananda discussed about this concept but YSS/SRF monks misinterpreted it, confusing the seekers without understanding the difference between divine will and freewill.

The soulmates chosen by God will never divide, they are taking birth on this earth to perfect their human love into divine love, to continue the same cordial relations life after life.

Some regresees revealed a lot in  "Destiny of Souls"  on soulmates.  One couple is maintaining same cordial marital relations for the past 7000 years,  I think.

In Destiny of  Souls ..

Between the first and second council meetings is a period of renewal for the soul. As ethereal beings, our growth actually began in the mental realm of the spirit world with other souls before any of us incarnated. So while our internal being is uniquely individual, a vital part of spiritual life between incarnations is devoted to empathetic relationships with other souls. Thus, our development as souls becomes a collective one. Part of the expression of this collectivity is the association we have with these souls in a material reality, such as Earth.

During reincarnation, the closeness souls feel for each other in a mental setting is severely tested by karmic challenges in our host bodies. This interruption of a blissful mental existence is one means by which spiritual masters expand our consciousness.

I have listened to many intriguing past life love stories of soulmates who come across time and space to meet each other in life once again. Here are a few examples:

Past life age regression produces interesting information about coupling, but placing these clients between their lives provides them with far more perspective on these relationships.

There are many tests wrapped in the package of love. Mixed into those lives where we have had a long and happy life with a soulmate are  those lives where we have destroyed the relationship or been devastated by the actions of our soulmate toward us. In the difficult lives with soulmates something stood in the way of an acceptance of love. Being with soulmates can bring joy and  pain, but we learn from both. Always, there are karmic reasons behind the serious events involving relationships in our lives  ...

...  A primary, or principal soulmate is frequently in our life as a closely bonded partner.This partnership may be our spouse, brother or sister, a best friend, or occasionally a parent. No other soul is more important to us than a primary soulmate and when my subjects describe lives with these souls as their mates most will say their existence is enriched beyond measure.

One of the greatest motivations for souls to incarnate is the opportunity for expression in physical form. This is certainly an attraction for primary soulmates.

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There is always a mental connection of one sort or another with a soulmate, regardless of the role they play. We connect with people on many levels for a multitude of karmic lessons in every life. When  friendship catches fire it turns to love, but without abiding friendship deep love cannot thrive. ...

On the other hand, there may be reasons why we might not meet our primary soulmate until later in life. Soulmates will from time to time separate for a life or two and not appear at all.

 "My soulmate and I were becoming too dependent upon each other, we needed to grow a while on our own" is a statement I often hear when soulmates are apart.

Every era on Earth is different as to the sort of attachment and experience we will have with a soulmate. However, each life with them builds upon former lives. We learn valuable lessons from broken relationships. The important thing is to move on in life.

Some clients may tell me before their session  that true love seems to elude them. After the session they usually understand the reasons behind this situation. If the right love for you does not come along, liberate yourself with the understanding that you may be here to learn other lessons.We mistakenly assume people who choose to live alone are lonely when actually they have rich lives that are calm, reflective and productive.

Connecting with someone for whom you have no feelings just for the sake of not being alone is more lonely than being by yourself. As the song says, "Falling in love with love is falling for make-believe." This kind of love is a fantasy because it's driven by an addiction to have love at any price. If your soulmate is supposed to appear they will come into your life, often when you least expect it.   ..

An example ..  

Maureen and Dale learned that they were born only a few months apart fifty years ago in an area around San Francisco. They talked about their unsuccessful marriages and a mutual feeling of unexplained sadness about seeking something neither had ever found that would open their hearts. Their conversations mostly centered around life after death  and Dale mentioned reading my work. Soon, the two decided to meet each other in California and see me for a combined regression session at the same time.

I agreed to an appointment date that turned out to be the day after they first met. They arrived at my office starry-eyed and I remarked that they were already in a trance state and didn't need me.

The moment they saw each other there was instant recognition. Maureen said, "The way we smiled at each other—the expression in our eyes— the sound of our laughter together—the connecting vibrations as we shook hands—created a euphoria that was so strong we were oblivious to everything going on around us."   ...

The advantages of this hypnosis technique are many, including learning if any disrupting body imprints from the last life have been carried forward into the client's current physical body.     ...

These soulmates both knew going into their current life that conditions would not be right for their meeting until many years had passed. Dale especially needed to feel the frustration of years of longing for the right woman to come along. He is not a careless, irresponsible man today. Samantha/Maurcen also required the maturity she did not yet possess in her relationship with Rick in the 1920s.    ....

Soulmates for the past 7000 years.

We can see that Ruth's primary soulmate in this life is her husband. In Ruth's last life, this soul was her best friend, and in the life before, her wife when she was a male in the eighteenth century. Ruth's primary soulmate has a halo color tinted with  protective yellow while Ruth's own halo is a mixture of white and blue tints, indicating clarity and love of learning.

 These primary soulmates have mated on a fairly regular basis for some   7,000 years   since their first life together. Besides the companion souls in Ruth's soul group, I have also shown two affiliated souls from a nearby group. These souls are my subject's current father and mother. The roles they played in the nineteenth century were her grandmother and grandfather respectively.

In the eighteenth century, these same two souls were Ruth's aunt and uncle. Ruth's chart represents one typical client. Every soul group has its own subtle variations of human family preferences.1 had a client the same  week I saw Ruth who is extremely close to her mother. The mother's soul was a member of that client's soul group and was her sister in the life before.

Grandparents often have a great influence in our early lives as nonjudgmental confidants. I often find that a favorite grandparent in this life was a sibling or best friend in a former life. The social dynamics of intimate human contact are so powerful that in most of my cases the roles souls play in our lives and we in theirs directly bear on a group's karmic lessons.

When we are hurt by someone close to us in life, or caused them hurt resulting in alienation and separation, it is because they volunteered to teach us lessons of some sort while learning lessons themselves.

If the soulmates selected by God means as per the divine will they are uniting on this earth.  God is the decision maker but not human beings or any Master.  The Masters those who has divine vision can give clues.  Those who are capable to visualize can spot their soulmate in his/her deeper meditations.

Once you spotted your soulmate, use commonsense and apporpriate communication to share your visions and divine instruction received from God.

If the vision is true and genuine, the said soulmates will definitely meet and recognize each other.  When they will meet?  When they will marry?  are depending on circumstances, opportunities proper guidance, ability to open the heart before each other and appropriate communication between each other and families.

Dissolving Fear

Dissolving Fear   

One of the biggest challenges of physical life is dealing with fear. The brain being a survival machine is prone to be “wary” of life all the time, it’s constantly on the guard, worried about the future, doubting the possibility of a +ive outcome, confused about existence & always wondering if its missing out on something. The 2 basics needs of a brain are 1. security 2. entertainment. In fact it cannot really enjoy entertainment unless it feels secure in some way. The brain can feel secure in a particular circumstance, mostly when it has the perceived “protection” of a stable job, a stable relationship & some stability in health, however, there is also an awareness that things can change anytime, & this uncertainty breeds fear, thus making you feel insecure even in the midst of an externally secure environment. On top of this, a brain is capable of creating random fears & phobias, sometimes totally childish fears which seem to have a grip nevertheless. Living a life as a prisoner to fear is about the most constricted life one can lead, finding relief only in a drugged state or in sleep.

Fear is not as a big deal as you make it out to be. The reason you stay a prisoner to fear is because you never see it for what it is – fear is very ordinary, it’s extremely limited in its power/intensity & cannot influence you if you just develop some understanding of it. Understanding fear is the 1st step, the 2nd step is to allow it’s the dissolution of its intensity till it comes close to “zero intensity”. The 1st step, of understanding fear, is about getting to know it as it is, by removing all your delusions about it. The 2nd step, of dissolving fear, is about bring an embrace/allowing (light nature) to fear (dark nature) so that it balances out into wholeness. Whatever you allow fully always loses its negativity – if you can just understand this pointer, there really isn’t much else to understand.

Understanding fear

Fear is the mind’s way of being protective of its existence, some fears of the mind are reasonable, some are just bogus, in either case the deal is not be a slave to the fear. If the mind has a reasonable fear, just allow it fully & the solutions required can start manifesting. If the mind has a bogus fear, just allow it fully & it will get dissolved in force. So ultimately the bottom-line towards freedom from the force of fear is to allow it fully. However, as soon as the mind fears something, we get worried, this is because of 2 reasons

1. We assume that the right response to a mind’s fear is to be afraid/worried about it. This is a wrong assumption & this assumption is at the root of why fear keeps gaining momentum in your being.

2. We don’t trust the well-being inherent to our life-stream & thus believe the fearful projections of the mind instead of being in the flow of letting life orchestrate the right events/timing, moving from inspiration, knowing that the force of life is on your side if you allow it to work for you.

Don’t take your mind so seriously. The mind is a very limited machine, it runs totally on its programming (natural & external conditioning) & has a very narrow vision. If you’ve lived enough life you will realize that your mind’s conclusions/projections are not always true & even when they are true it’s serves no purpose to worry about them because a solution can come in more quickly if you are open in you being. Your inner stability depends on how free you are from your mind – a person who panics at the slightest -ve thought in the mind is a total prisoner to the mind, with close to zero inner stability. Growing in inner stability is about becoming less & less influenced by the mind movement. When you see that the mind is just a machine, with a certain programming, you don’t take it to be your “master”, you don’t sit cringing about each of its thoughts – just let it be, even the act of trying to suppress the mind is an act of fear.

For me, the biggest moment of freedom was to realize that I don’t have to do my mind’s bidding, neither do I have to serve its tantrums or craving, neither do I have to sit reassuring it all the time. It’s just a neural network, a conglomerations of cells doing a job, not different than the microchips in your computer creating the illusion of intelligence – in truth, it’s just a mechanical intelligence running on its conditioning & past database. To me its seems almost ridiculous now, how I used to buy all the beliefs of the mind, all the random thoughts that it was producing & all its limiting judgments & opinions – to buy into everything your mind says is about the most limiting life you can ever live, it makes you a very “closed” person.

My mind, like any other mind, has opinions, fears, judgments, interests, inclinations, preferences, bias, attachments & desires, the only difference is that I also have a space where I am free of all of this & I thus have a choice in my relationship towards my mind – I am not at the beck & call of my mind, I am not a servant to it neither am I always opposed to it. I enjoy my mind, to me it’s the most entertaining unit possible even in its idiosyncrasies. You can’t enjoy your mind unless you are free of it. If your whole identity is based on what your mind thinks, you are a slave to it & hence you can’t really enjoy it. People who are way too serious about life are the people who take their mind’s opinions & perspectives too seriously – there is no space in them which is free of the mind’s influence. The mind is not a master, it’s just a machine, quit being so servile to it.

Develop an independence from your mind

The most important aspect of growing in awareness is to first come out of the shell of your mind. As I said above, my mind is capable of opinions, discriminations, judgments, bias, preferences & fears – but I am also free of it, at any moment I have the choice to either go with my mind or retain my “openness” & this is a huge freedom. When one is unconsciously lost to the grip of the mind, there is no choice but to go with the mind all the time. There was point when I actually made a commitment to no longer be a slave to the mind & develop an independent space within me that was free of the mind’s identities & beliefs. My mind had a very strong momentum of negativity going on & staying true to this commitment was highly challenging especially when it went into a rampage of fears with all the perfect arguments to defend its fears. The deal was that I understood the mechanics of a mind & hence I stopped buying into its pull. I just let it be, I call this state “relaxed awareness”, but really it’s just a commitment to not give in to the mind’s pull & stay in an open space of allowing it.

It’s not easy to stay allowing of the mind, without buying into its pull, when it has a strong momentum going for it. In fact, it’s really tough initially. However, once you have an understanding that the mind is just a machine & that its momentum comes from your attention to it, you realize that its momentum cannot last if you stop giving it attention. By “attention” I just mean belief/identification/trust/interest, a lot of readers get hung up on the literal meaning of the words instead of just seeing the pointer involved in it. When I say don’t give attention to the mind I don’t mean try to run away from your mind, or try to ignore it, in fear, I am just referring to the simple state of allowing the mind to be, without buying into it. Look at your mind the way you would look at a computer that’s running on programming, can you see how most of its thoughts are just plain repetitive, like a closed loop? It’s just running on past momentum, you don’t have to give credence to these thoughts – the moment you let go of your interest/belief in these thoughts, they automatically ebb away in force & dissolve.

Don’t look for security as soon as the mind pops an insecure thought – understand that it’s just a thought, a perspective of the mind, nothing more. You have the independence to not buy the perspectives of your mind & let yourself just stay in a space of “openness” (what’s called resting in the unknown) and let life bring you the required insights, understandings and solutions. For example, when the mind goes “I hate being alone”, don’t mull this thought, instead just let the thought be – don’t go around trying to appease your mind all the time, this way you will just become a slave to it. I am not saying that you should oppose your mind all the time, I am just saying that you need to develop a space of freedom within you where you have the independence to not be influenced by what your mind thinks.

Most of us just keep repeating what our mind says without even taking the time to question it, or introspect it, or to look more deeply at it – if the mind says “I hate this thought, I can’t bear it”, we just accept its opinion instead of understanding that its just the mind’s opinion & you have the freedom to not buy into it. You might just have had a break up & your mind is going crazy with the repetitive thought of “I can’t live without him/her” – if you have an inner stability you will have the space to allow the mind to have it moment of grief without getting into a twirl to reassure/fix it, knowing that its momentum will die away with time; On the other hand, if you lack inner stability you will end up sending a hundred texts to your ex, making it all worse. The therapists would go out of business if people just understood that they don’t have to fix their minds they just need to stop buying into everything it says & the mind will sort out on its own, time allows for the momentum of the mind to come down regarding any thought it might hold. Developing this inner stability is the basic foundation needed to have a balanced physical life.

Allowing dissolution of the force of fear

All fears are ultimately thought forces in the mind. To dissolve a fear you need to merge it with its opposite, which is fearlessness (openness). True fearlessness is about being allowing. So when a fear arises, if you become allowing of it, it starts dissolving in force. It’s a very simple logic & it works for even the most intense fears you might have – there is no other secret. You can discuss your fears with a multitude of therapists, take a bunch of medications, join a host of chat groups to discuss them & basically keep trying to get rid of the fear & nothing really changes except that the fear gains more momentum out of all your fights against it. But, the moment you allow the fear fully & totally, without looking for an escape, it starts losing its force automatically & the energy of the fear is transmuted into energy of creation (creating a reality with a solution that ends the external manifestation of that fear).

The word “allowing” is crucial & it’s important to understand the implication of it. Staying in a place of allowing is really not a technique, however you can start off initially by using it as a technique or a practice – what I call the practice of relaxed awareness, or staying in the space of being. But at some point you want to let go of the mindset of using it as a practice & make it your way of living. “Allowing” is not a practice, it’s a way of life – it’s not something you do to get rid of fear, it’s about connecting with your true body of spaciousness. The state of allowing is a pointer towards your natural state of openness, it’s not meant to just be a temporary technique to help you get rid of some specific fear that you are dealing with right now. A real allowing can only happen when you stop trying to protect yourself against fear, stop trying to get rid of fear, rather just become totally open to it.

The problem is that the moment I use words like “relaxed awareness”, space of being, or state of allowing, it always comes across as if I am giving a technique when I am actually just pointing to a state of being – a state of living life. If you say – “I’ve been allowing for 2 or 3 months & the fears are still there, so what else should I do” – it just means you did not get the point at all, and you’ve just been doing a “practice” to keep protecting yourself against fear, you’ve not really allowed the fear in to the point where you no longer fear it. The deal is that you can only become truly allowing of a fear when you stop fearing it & the question the mind keeps asking is “how do I stop fearing it”, this is the loop of confusion. The answer is – “just allow the fear in without holding distance”, & keep doing it until you no longer have to ask “how do I stop fearing it”. The only way a fear can dissolve in force is when it meets the space of true allowing, a true openness, a true embrace – only you can know if you are really allowing it, don’t just do it for the sake of practice, do it to know your own power of allowing – this is how you will find out how spacious/vast your being really is.

KARMIC CONNECTIONS PARTNER

Karmic connection soulmates are those folks who show up in your life whom who you seem destined or fated to encounter. Whether its within your family, among your friends or in your romantic life. Karmic connections are the peoples with whom you experience the greatest struggles. They are unfinished business that you need to deal with on a soul level, lessons that you have not still completely mastered. They are the ones who seem to know how to “push your buttons”. Often karmic connections are the “final exam” of a particular soul before the dynamic shift to a Balance Partner relationship. Sometimes you are taking the exams (serving as an example how to bring the balance) and other times you are giving the exams (learning how to bring balance). Either way there is a exam of some sort involved, and often, it is your patience that is being tested.

Lesbians and Gays

Astrology clearly defines that out of 12 zodiac signs; 6 are masculine signs and 6 are feminine signs.

The masculine signs are: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius.

The feminine signs are: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.

The masculine elements are fire and air where as feminine elements are Water and earth.

So this clearly states that half of the world is a female and other half is male.

A male who is a Taurian is actually a female from soul because Taurus is a feminine sign. Similarly, Cancer, Virgo, Scopio, Capricorn and Piscean males are also feminine by soul.

Moreover, the same happens with females born with masculine zodiac signs.

Now the question arises when two females comes in marriage or two males comes in marriage, then why the world condemns them. The reason is simple that they do not know the main reason. Now, through this article the world would understand why two person of same sexes comes together.

So a male with female zodiac sign enjoys another males with male zodiac sign. The same case is with females also.

The world call them Lesbians and Gays.

Now the reasons is well explained, now before accusing any lesbian or gay couples please keep this in mind.

Happy Living

EMOTIONAL ATYACHAR: FAILURE TO UNDERSTAND LOVE

LOVE comes from the hindi word "lobh" which means greed.

PEOPLE FEEL THAT THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER.

But they fool themselves because they are asking for love in return. A boy cries in front of girl for love and girl feels miserable for the boy accepts him. One beggar accepting the other beggar for a life partner. But what happens, everything gets screwed and love runs from back door and only sadness prevails. Love has always been misunderstood. Love is taken granted as being one's sole right from the other person. One loves other to receive love in exchange of love. Its a kind of bargain. Parents love their kids so that they can provide them support when they are old. See it is bargain. Everybody wants to possess the other person. They want to keep the feeling in tact by force or cultural rituals like marriage.

In our country parents fool their kids by prisoning them in a institution called marriage. Arrange marriages are such stupid acts. But so called love marriages are also mistakes made by two adults. Without knowing their soulmates they enter marriage and after 3 years curse them for their foolish act. And then they search soulmates in other women. Some are more miserable who search love in brothels or other woman. They are always searching till their last breath. They say that soulmates are in stories. Because they want to satisfy their ego that they are on right path.

In my view everyone should give a try finding a true soulmate. In one's lifetime, one will surely get in touch with his or her soulmate but they fail to recognize him or her. The waiting is the only thing one should do. Take your time, feel from heart and ask your soul whether this person is my soulmate if not move on. But don't apply your brain. Because brain will tell you all things except love. Love is task of heart and soul not brain. But what a pity nowadays people apply brains in finding their soulmate and make their life hell.

I regularly watch "Emotional Atayachar", and feel pity for them who goes to EA team for loyalty test. Because I feel that these persons make bigger mistakes instead of those who cheat them. They don't trust their lovemates and go for surveillance of other person. With love every person also wants freedom. Freedom and love takes a toll to stay together. People fail to understand that true love is just giving and giving without any kind of expectation. Being happy in love is what soul wants. Love is spiritual not physical. No matter how much you mate biologically but what matters is mating of souls. The more freedom you give to your mate the more chances of getting her/him as soulmate. Two persons in love can free themselves from birth cycle which makes them immortal -"A true soul of god". Pure love leads one to mediation and through meditation you get salvation.

"Man is meditation and women is love, together they make Love as Meditation."- OSHO

LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.

LOVE SPIRITUALLY.

LOVE YOUR SOULMATE.

ARYAN

Conditioning of Women Mind

A girl unconsciously get her mind conditioned as her mother because every child spends maximum time with her mother. So a girl child also gathers much from what her mother has given or told her. This mother has lived a life where she had only anger, frustration and slavery as man had control over her. This same thing is being passed over to her daughter where she reacts the same way when she meets a man. So women get rid of the conditioning that your mom has sub consciously given to you. You have accepted it unconsciously. The way to get rid of it is to become conscious of it. It is a good beginning that you have asked. This is the beginning of consciousness-just the very ABC. You have to go far to change your mind completely, to be fresh, unconditioned, open and vulnerable.

And because of this conditioning you have been playing this ugly game, that whenever a man comes close to you with his love, you run away, which naturally encourages him to chase you. That you enjoy, that he is chasing you. Every woman enjoys that. It is ugly, and you are not aware of its deeper implications. It means you are the prey; the man is the hunter and he is chasing game. You are allowing supremacy to the man, unknowingly. It has been traditionally given to you that the initiative in love should be taken by men, not women; it is against a woman's grace. Those are all rotten ideas-why be number two from the beginning? If you love a man, why wait? I know many women who have waited for years because they wanted the man to take initiative. But they fallen in love with such men who were not going to take the initiative.

There is really no reason for the women to wait for the men to take the initiative. If a woman feels love for someone, she should take the initiative and she should not feel humiliated if the man is not willing. this will give them equality. these are small things that will make the liberation of women possible.

But the women has been always trying yo be "game". She attracts the man, she tries in every way to attract him by her beauty, by her clothes, her perfume, her hairdo-all that she can manage. She attracts the man, and once the man is attracted she starts running away. But she does not run too fast, either. She goes on looking back, to see whether that fellow is coming or not. If he is left far behind, she waits. When he comes close again she starts running.

This is stupid; love should be a clean affair. You love someone, you express your love and tell the other person, "You are not obliged to say yes; your no will be perfectly respected. It is just my desire. Yu need not unwillingly say yes to me, because that yes is dangerous unless you also feel love for me. Only then can our life become a completion."

A woman and a man in love can move into meditation very easily,.. meditation and love are such clsoe phenomenon that if you really fall in love with someone who loves you, your meditatiive energies start growing; they are very deeply joined experiences. Hence, i favor of both.

Choose Your SOULMATE

There are three main reasons why a man is attracted to a woman and vice-versa:
1. Physical attraction
2. Mental compatibility or Heart perversion or Intimacy
3. Soul attraction

These attractions occur when you meet a person FACE TO FACE. One can also be attracted to a photograph of an individual. Now the question arises why you get attracted to a certain person.
Every person carries an energy level around their bodies which is known as AURA.

A POSITIVE ENERGY PERSON WILL ATTRACT A POSITIVE PERSON AND A NEGATIVE ENERGY PERSON ATTRACTS A NEGATIVE PERSON.

But sometimes opposites attract. Such attractions are mainly physical one. An example: when you see a celebrity picture, you are physically attracted to her body, her breasts and her private parts and vice versa for females. The same thing occurs when you meet such a person face to face. If you are a man and you are attracted to a woman then there will an erection in penis and when a woman is physically attracted to a man then her nipples will tighten and she will feel a sensation in clitoris. Any relations resulting from physical attraction lasts for very short period. Once the lust is over, the relation is over. An example: When a man seduces a prostitute or a college girl is seduced by a teacher or a senior in a car or hostel room.

Mental attraction is what we call compatibility. A lot of youngsters want compatibility in relationships. So what does compatibility means? It means nothing but a liking towards one another based on mental calculations or a liking based on friendship resulting to an adjustment of two hearts and minds. When two persons feel that their likings are similar. Like both enjoy similar hobbies or interests, they say they are compatible. The word compatible states that two persons are having the same frequency and their physical and mental chemistry is good. These kind of relationships are based on give and take principle. An example: A couple has an understanding that the female will be on top of male or vice-versa, while achieving the orgasm or physical pleasure. The term of relationship is longer and may result in marriage. Here, both of them are so much concerned about ejection of sperms or ova to reach the ultimate pleasure. But each time they reach the top, they end up at the bottom. Again on another night they try to reach the summit but end up in the valley. There is no eternal satisfaction. A woman after sometimes felt bored as she cannot achieve multiple orgasms because the male is busy satisfying himself ejecting as soon as possible. Hence, both male and female began to search another person believing that the opposite is not a perfect match. That’s why there are so many divorces and marriage break ups. And even those who can’t divorce due to social or monetary obligations became unfaithful by indulging in another relationship.

So what is the solution to this problem? Actually, it’s not a problem. It’s just a chapter which is not added in the course of one’s life.

Soulful relations are the eternal in nature. When a man is attracted soulfully towards a woman or vice-versa then a message from inner sub-conscious will be sent to the conscious brain. One will feel happy and all the pours of your skin will open resulting in trembling of your body. This would be a natural process. Your move will not be a result of responses of your brain or heart but it will be stimuli or automatic reaction. When your body shakes then all pours of skin opens and your body is ready to accept the other body. But people react negatively to that situation as they are scared of themselves. It actually gives you the indication that you are ready for the sex. Making love to the opposite with a shaking body is great experience. When two individuals with soulful attractions meet, there is no hurry for sex. They rather lengthen the whole love making process starting with kissing, touching breast / prostate (nipple orgasm), rubbing clitoris/penis (Clitoris orgasm), swallowing penis/sucking vulva and finally vaginal penetration hitting g-spot (vaginal orgasm). Since woman takes longer time to activate initially but once she gets going, she can achieve multiple orgasms. Similarly, a man can also get multiple orgasms. During multiple orgasms, a stage is reached when two bodies become one. A man will not be a man and a woman will not a woman, rather they become one. There will be timelessness feeling and one’s body will have self control. Generally, such phase comes for a very shorter period say 1-2 seconds. But through practice, the time could be increased to 2-3 hours and when you will reach that stage you will meet god there. It’s when you’re your half soul along with half soul of your partner will mate to unite with the heavenly soul of the universe i.e. GOD.

So now you have the choice.

Choose your partner, choose your SOULMATE….